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they think I'M THE LIAR (need help soon)
okay so about 2 months ago i did something with the guy i liked. i ended up being his rebound girl and i didnt want to be so i stopped what we were doing before it got any further. ok so i told my one "friend" about this because she was bothering me about not getting any action from guys so i wanted to shut her up because it was getting really annoying. she promised she wouldn't tell anyone and i trusted her because she was always a trustworthy person. except for now. she went and told this boy's ex girlfriend that i made out with him (i didn't make out with him) and now they're both mad because they think i made it all up. im not known to lie by the way. but anyway then they went to the guy and asked him and he's denying it all because he still thinks theres some chance that him and his ex are going to get back together. so i look like the liar but this boy has been known to lie to get himself out of these dramatic situations before. i dont know what to do, they wont believe me when i tell them i didn't make out with him and they think i made this all up for attention and i didnt! this guy just isnt helping me and coming forward with the truth. please help me, what do i say to these so called "friends" and how do i get the boy to come clean?
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First off, never tell your friends anything ever again. They've just proven to you that they cannot be trusted with secrets, or any type of information, so cut them short & find new friends before they tell everything about your life.
Second, you can't get this guy to come clean. He used you & now he's not gonna admit it. He'll never tell the truth about it. Sorry to say, but some guys are like this, and they'll probably never change their ways. But you can always laugh when his ex & him don't work out [that's if she takes him back, of course]. Besides, if they didn't work out before, what the hell makes him think it's gonna work out this time? Plain & simple -- it won't, so no matter what, you'll be getting the last laugh.
Just go on with your life. Your friends are fake, this guy's an asshole, and you're the only one who knows the truth. As long as you know what happened, and what's the truth & what isn't, then you're better than them & you've got no worries. Don't worry about some dumb guy. He's not worth your time. It's about time you realized that.
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your friends dont sound like true friends what i think you should do isgo up to that boy next to every one and say hey reason you know we didnt do any of theses things so you better conme clean befor i say things and then go up to your friend and tell them what i told you was a lie i just wanted to shut your big mouth that way they will both get inbersed wright me back an the emil of cutegirls_702@hotmail.com and tell me how it all want out love your advice joujou
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Well you can either just try telling all of them the truth, and if that doesn't work then you can ignore it. But try talking to your "friend" and ask her why she told his ex a lie. Forget them, if he's upset because he wants to get back with his ex but she's mad then that's his problem! If he's denying having any relationship with you then it's only hurting him. I'm assuming that he might just want an honest relationship, and in that case he should tell who ever he's going out with, but if not, then just let him lie about it and he'll be the one paying when his girlfriend finds out!! If you didn't make out with him, just say it, leave, and forget about it. good luck!!
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