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i love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me were doing really good. but i can tell my bf wants more he wants sex he has never forced me or anything. but he gets horny I can tell. I kinda want to do it too. But this would be my first time. Im just scarde because i think about the concequences. Like a baby.We always start kissing and when i know its too much i tell him to stop he doesnt get mad or anything he tells me he will wait until am ready.Im really happy he respects me. I love him and i want to make him happy what should i do.
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Well there is always a risk of getting pregnant because I had that happen to me when i was 17, but because of my own personall mistakes I always recommend saving yourself for marriage and tell him that because he already respects you and if he dosent respect that then well hes not worth your time, or atleast wait till you know if you do get pregnant then you can take care of it. I think you need to talk to him though and I know that condoms do not always work they only have a 70-80% gaurd they are really made to stop disease, but if you do decide to go ahead with it then get birth control!
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OK, make sure your making the right choice by having sex or not. If your think it is, then make sure he is wearing a condom, so you don't have to worry about getting pregnet. It's probaly a good thing he respects you. This means he won't do anything unnecessary.
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I had the same problem and my bf even gought a condom so I know he wanted something. I just talked to him about it and I told him that I would have sex with him but I didn't want to get pregnant or get a disease or something and he respects that. If your boyfriend really loves you then he'll be okay with you not wanting to have sex and should happily wiat until you're ready. hope i helped!
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in the end its really up to you. If your worried about getting pregant consider your protection options i.e
condom
the pill
also make sure the time is right and you are in a secure place, theres nothing like being interruppted during a special moment.
also talk to him about it and make sure you talk about your worries.
And if he really respect you he will take it slow, and not do anything too extreme just yet.
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Think about it. EVERYTHING. And then, if you think that it's the right time, then I think you should go ahead. But, just some things to consider:
-emotional consequences
-physical consequences
-Parental Units
So, after thinking and thinking, it's up to you. Because to be honest, every single person on this site could give you all the advice in the world, but it wouldn't matter, because we're not the ones taking the action, you know? I'm just telling you that it's a personal decision. But I don't mind answering :]
Jess♥
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he sounds really trustworthy so you're really lucky. there are a few things to consider before you make that decision though.
-how old are you first of all? they say when you're 16 or older you'll be emotionally ready for something like that
-do you completely without a doubt trust him
-have you guys been dating for a while
-do you know him really well
if you want to do it for you because you think you're ready, you're curious about it and you trust him then go ahead. dont do it to make him happy or because you think you owe him for not rushing you.
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Well, if you don't think you're too young and you're ready then do it! but ask yourself if this is the person you want to share this with, and if you do it, wil you regret it? if you tell him you're not ready then it sounds like he'll respect that.
hope i helped =>
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hey
well he sounds like a really good boyfriend for respecting your decision & not pushing you into something you dont want to do.
if you really want it, and are willing to take the consequences [ aka getting pregnant, STDs, etc. ] then why not?
dont be pressured though. & it's a good thing to tell him when to stop. he will be there for you.
if youre careful, nothing will happen. but pregnancies cannot be avoided unless practiced with abstinance. but who does that anyway? haha
before you do it, just tell him how you feel & he will understand if you stop mid-way or something.
just dont be pressured if he forces it upon you. he might get really turned on & just want you to do it so he can derive pleasure from it.
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Hey, everything is in great condition with your relationship. He isn't getting mad at you for not having sex yet. He understands you and that it would be your first time and he is okay with that. He obviously loves you, and he isn't using you for sex. That is a great great thing. Just wait until your ready is all you can do. If you kind of want to, maybe you could try but you NEED protaction and stuff.
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