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How long do you usually masterbate for? How do you know when to stop? (link)
theres no time you have to stick to you just have to stop when you want


I'm a girl and I have been masterbating since I was about 4 years old and always with a blanket. I am now 18 and recently lost my virginity to a guy I liked. Our relationship didnt last too long after, mainly because I liked masterbating instead of sex. Is this unusual to like masterbating instead of sex and do I need to maybe get some sex therapy or something because wont this maybe mess up my love life later on?
Thanks.
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a lot of ppl feel this way and dont worry about it.


I am in a odd relationship. the two of us (im m/16) and she (f/17) mutually like eachother. she keeps telling me she wants to cuddle. usually i am busy or out at night, and she calls and says how she just wants to cuddle. I have never had sex with her and not 100% sure on what she is asking. some advice on what to respond to her with, and what to actually do would be great. much obliged (link)
just go and cuddle her and if it leads to something else then it leads to something else
simple


i love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me were doing really good. but i can tell my bf wants more he wants sex he has never forced me or anything. but he gets horny I can tell. I kinda want to do it too. But this would be my first time. Im just scarde because i think about the concequences. Like a baby.We always start kissing and when i know its too much i tell him to stop he doesnt get mad or anything he tells me he will wait until am ready.Im really happy he respects me. I love him and i want to make him happy what should i do. (link)
in the end its really up to you. If your worried about getting pregant consider your protection options i.e
condom
the pill
also make sure the time is right and you are in a secure place, theres nothing like being interruppted during a special moment.
also talk to him about it and make sure you talk about your worries.
And if he really respect you he will take it slow, and not do anything too extreme just yet.


Can you tell if someones in to you? (link)
its pretty obvious really. they keep staring at you, smile, and ask you lots of questions


ok, theres this girl im pretty good frineds with in my health class, i like her and im crazy about her. well we talk all the time on aim nd lately i hadnt been myself and i told her about wut was goin on and she told me i jsut neeed faith in god and cuz of her ive been gettign alot better. then she invited me to see her play at her church and told me to find her afterwards so we could talk, bt i coudnt find her till rite before my dad pulled up. shes apparently looking for a b/f that willb e a best friend for her and stuff nd ive always jsut been a rele good frineds with most the girls i know. does it soudn liek she likes me? any other advice please? thanx (link)
go with ur instincts. ask her out. if you guys are such good friends then surely she feels the same way. and if she says no then at least you gave it a shot.
it worked 4 me with my bf




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