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Is it wrong to only like masterbating
I'm a girl and I have been masterbating since I was about 4 years old and always with a blanket. I am now 18 and recently lost my virginity to a guy I liked. Our relationship didnt last too long after, mainly because I liked masterbating instead of sex. Is this unusual to like masterbating instead of sex and do I need to maybe get some sex therapy or something because wont this maybe mess up my love life later on?
Thanks.
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a lot of ppl feel this way and dont worry about it.
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this is totally normal. when you do it to yourself you know exactly how you like it, how hard to do it, etc. haha but anyways.. you need to direct the guy on how to do it how you like it. that might help a little. if hes doing something you dont like.. tell him. and show him the RIGHT way that makes you feel good.
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it's normal to masterbate and I even think healthy. For whatever reason it's more socially acceptable for men to masterbate than women. Women need sexual gratification too.. Perhaps you satisfy yourself but your bf didn't satisfy you. It will not messs up your love life later on. If you are masterbating with a vibrator I think it will be more difficult for you to achieve orgasm with a man. No man can do what a vibrator can. Masterbation is totally safe sex,.
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Masturbation is only wrong if it interferes with daily life [showering, going to work/school, sleeping, eating]. If you prefer masturbation over those things, then it's unhealthy.
And no, sometimes girls prefer masturbation over sex if the guy can't hit her spot, or he's taking too long to get her off. But if you prefer masturbation over sex everytime, it can get a little annoying & may resort in no one EVER sleeping w. you.
You don't need sex therapy; you just need to occupy some of your time with something else.
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That is very normal. I liked masturbating more than sex because I knew exactly what i wanted to feel and where I wanted to feel it and for how long and I controlled it. But what I realized is that I had to communicate with my Man so that he would be able to give me the same pleasure I was getting from masturbating. What is nice is that after you communicate to him what you enjoy you will get the good feeling, plus he will be able to do many things at the same time like play with your boobies and kiss you and hug you and stuff that just feels better when there are two people. Just tell him what you like babe! If he cares about you he will work something out with you.
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