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Cuddling
I am in a odd relationship. the two of us (im m/16) and she (f/17) mutually like eachother. she keeps telling me she wants to cuddle. usually i am busy or out at night, and she calls and says how she just wants to cuddle. I have never had sex with her and not 100% sure on what she is asking. some advice on what to respond to her with, and what to actually do would be great. much obliged
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just go and cuddle her and if it leads to something else then it leads to something else
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well when i cuddle with someone it means something like laying on a couch together, petting each other's hair, spooning, hugging, etc. you know, snuggling. she may be hoping for more, but that's what cuddling really means. just sit down on a couch and invite her to sit on your lap, wrap your arm around her, change positions... maybe talk about something. cuddling is really pleasant =)
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Girls like to be touched, hugged, held, etc. If she is asking you to cuddle, then she is likely wanting those things.
Get a good movie from the video store and curl up with her on the couch.
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Dear Not-sure-wether-to-cuddle-or-not,
I'm a girl to start off, and usually when a girl wants to "cuddle" she just wants to talk and be around you. By her definition of "cuddle" its just holding hands, sitting closly while watching a movie, you know, <i>cuddling</i>, in all senses of the word. I doubt she wants sex, cuz usually girls arent like that. If you dont feel comftorable and you still think she might be referring to sex, call her and ask her what she means by "cuddling" but be sure to ask in a subtile way or she might think that you're a dirty thinker. I hope this helped, good luck and keep me updated!
Sincerly,
Lisa
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She's asking to cuddle.
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