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my sister and sexual intercourse.
My little sister is only fifteen and three quarters years old, yet she is maturing quite quickly. She began dating a young man who is a little rapscallian, if you ask me. I don't trust that boy. Yesterday, I was in her room looking for some lotion I could borrow. I opened her nightstand drawer, and lo and behold, I find condoms! And not just one or two, oh no. There were many, and they were all, well how do I put it... rather promiscuous. There were some which said that they gave a "tingly" feeling, due to their mintyness. Another was said to be flavored, and there were even some which were "ribbed for your pleasure." I am twenty five years old--ten years her senior--yet I have gone no further than tongue kissing, and I was a year older than her at the time! I believe that my sister is sinning terribly. What to do, what to do?
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First thing you need to do is tell your sister to sit down and have a loooooong talk with her about what shes doing.Start off by asking her what you found in her drawer and how dangerous having sex is at this age.Give her a long lecture and try to convince her with your poin of view.If that doesnt work then mabey you can talk to her boyfreind and tell him that if he does anything with your sister hes in big trouble.If tthat doesnt work then i suggest you tell your parents,they will be able to put an end to this for sure.Your sis is waaay to young for this and all shes gonna end up getting from sex at this age is STD's,bad reputation and mabey even pregnant!
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Realistically, all you can do is be sure she is educated about sex. Pregnancy & diseases are something she needs to be sure to understand.
Other than that, be thankful she is being safe with condoms.
You can give her advice, but you can't make her stop.
I have read questions on here written by 13 and 14 year olds asking for sex advice, so she is not alone in this behavior.
I'm 29, and I agree with you that it didn't seem that kids did such things when I was that age.
Like I said- be thankful she is smart enough to use condoms. That is the only protection she has against STDs.
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Dear Older Sister,
I think that you need to sit down with your sister and have a talk with her. You need to talk to her about the dangers of sex and protection all that good stuff. But you should be somewhat happy if she's using protection, but still, its not good that she has condomns. Talk to her, and sit her down, but be sure to bring it up in a way so it's not like "Why were you looking through my stuff!" Because being 15 is a very uhm, in lack of a better word, touchy age. I hope this helped, good luck and let me know how things turn out.
Sincerly,
Lisa
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ok, about 90% of the time kids will have sex if they want to, no matter what you tell them. all you can do is try your hardest to make what she does do safe. sit her down and tell her that you are proud of her for using protection, and try to make sure she knows all about sex and its potential effects.
or, you could tell her boyfriend you will literally track him down and kill him if he does anything. but i personally go with the first option :)
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Talk to her about it. Just be like "I was looking for some lotion, and came across some condoms.." And let the conversation start that way. She might get the wrong idea [thinking you were going through her things] & get mad at you, but it's normal.
Tell your sister that she should wait until she's older to be doing these things because there's a lot of negative effects with it.
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