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ahh ok so this guy - my best friend- i think he likes me too and he always flirts and hugs me and holds my hand and i want to let him know i like him. whats something really flirty that i could do to make him realize how i feel. like something cute that he might like. i dont know like maybe a kiss on the cheek would be too much? hmm oh well help me think of stuff! haha thanx a bunch ; )
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A kiss on the cheek would be perfect! When he holds your hand does he reach for it? If he does then you reach for his hand instead; that'll show him you want to hold hands. Or you could always just come out and say it to. good luck!!
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Just give him a kiss on the cheek, or tell him you like him.
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Actually a kiss on the cheek is not such a bad idea as it's quick, subtle and he'll get it. If he asks what did you do that for? Smile and say "just for being you." and then pipe in "Well, you left me with no other option to tell you."
Give him a peck on the cheek and make a joke. Then use it to discuss how you truly feel and just let it on out. He will respect you for it even if you don't date in the end. He's your best friend after all and won't bail on you over a peck on the cheek and you revealing how you feel.
Maybe you would be doing him a favor as he probably feels the same exact way about you but both of you are too scared about how the other will react.
As far a flirty goes if playing with your hair, smiling, joking, and glancing at him as well as making compliments aren't registering with his brain and setting off bells that "she likes me I better do something about it" than you need to step it up, get a bit agressive and go after what you want here. You'll be happy for letting go of this secret that has been burning inside of you.
A peck on the cheek is perfectly fine with the lines above I just gave you as a guide. What will probably happen is that he'll lean in and try to kiss you if he likes you. I've seen it happen lots.
Just be honest with him because best friends never hid the truth or secrets about anything. The worst case scenario is that you end up having a heart to heart where he doesn't want to date you but wants to become closer as friends.
One fliratious thing you could try is asking him to cuddle when alone. But at either rate none of this will serve you well unless you get the truth out. The peck on the cheek is a damn good way of waking him up to how this old girl he knows is in to him.
He'll stop seeing you as a girl he knows and has known since who knows when and see the grown up you that is serious about where you wanthim to be in your life right now. Basically, to sum it up be agressive and go after him.
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