I kinda liked/like this guy in my class. He's so nice and were deff like really close friends were always laughing and joking and I thought I just liked him as a friend, but he's such a good guy I can totally see myself being more then friends with him. We talk everyday, he leaves me myspace comments, messages me, texts me, and we have a bunch of jokes together.
Well, turns out, my step brother heard about me sorta liking this guy, and he asked him about me. My bro said when he asked him he was like smiling and stuff and that he might like me, but he wasn't sure so not to get my hopes up.
Soooo, what? Just best friends? or What?
Kristen03 answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 11:30 pm: Don't assume things. Talk to the guy and ask him if he likes you. Let him know that you like him and want to be more than just friends with him and see how that works. [ Kristen03's advice column | Ask Kristen03 A Question ]
marsbars answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 10:09 pm: Hey,
If you are good friends with this guy, just be like"so i heard my step brother said I like you" then see what he says. This will bring it up casually and maybe you'll find out if he likes you. If you find out if he likes you or not, it will be alot easier to decide if you like him. If he likes you, maybe you could like him to. If he doesn't like you then no sweat just stay friends.
hope this helps! much luv
-marsbars [ marsbars's advice column | Ask marsbars A Question ]
cjAdvice answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 9:11 pm: well its better to go out with friends than strangers rite? so why not go out with him? i mean who knows this may be mr perfect! [ cjAdvice's advice column | Ask cjAdvice A Question ]
Ivy921 answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 8:46 pm: I would say probably more than friends... but right now is the good stuff, you are having fun and know each other well and that 'what if' is exciting. Let things happen at their own pace. He'll make a move soon I would imagine. I bet probably right around new years. go with the flow and let things happen.
Good luck and keep me posted. [ Ivy921's advice column | Ask Ivy921 A Question ]
Willara answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 8:46 pm: Well ask him. I know it seems hard but it really isnt. IT sounds too me he does like you. I'd go for it and if he dosn't well then he dosen't, if he is a true friend then he wont just abbandone you. [ Willara's advice column | Ask Willara A Question ]
apk979 answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 8:24 pm: He's either trying to lead you on or he's not sure. Keep your distance but not too big of a distance. Have a light touch. Just try to act the same way you have been acting, cept it'll be a little bit harder now that truths are known. Give him some time to come around but like you said, don't give your hopes up. He's probably just thinking it over or waiting for you to make the first move if he's a shy guy. [ apk979's advice column | Ask apk979 A Question ]
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