i know this girl, and i care about her more than anything in the world, but i can tell shes going down the wrong road, i can notice changes in her that i've made, in a good way, but its not enough, shes getting into alchohol now, and that could lead to anything, i've tried talking to her about it but i just cant let out how i feel, PLZ HELP!!! SOS
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? mousie_101 answered Monday January 31 2005, 4:23 am: Then dont tell her face to face, a lot of times that is harder. Try to tell her in a note in good handwriting (so she can tell what it says :P ) and give it to her sometime she is sober so she will remember. Tell her you dont want to lose a good friend like her. Try to tell her all the nasty things that can come from using drugs. One of my best friends went through that and is now in a clinic in montana. So many rumors went around the school about her that arent true and when she gets home she will have a bad reputation from all the rumors. If your friend is big with her look, tell her a bunch of different stuff that can happen if she does what she is doing and if she is big with her reputation, tell her how bad the rumors can get if she keeps doing that stuff. Most importantly tell her how much you care about her and you will help her get through it if she needs help. If she doesnt want to listen try telling a school counselor, i know its like ratting on your friend but trust me, you'll regret it if you dont. [ mousie_101's advice column | Ask mousie_101 A Question ]
jAyMiLyNnE answered Sunday January 30 2005, 10:53 pm: hey well you need to tell her that you care about her and that your afraid she is goin down the wrong road.. does she have a really close friend that feels the same as you do?(that shes goin down the wrong road) if she does talk to them they might be able to help you alot. if not just sit her down and tell her your scared and worried about her. hope i helped. if you have anymore questions ask me n i will help.
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sk8rgurl answered Sunday January 30 2005, 7:46 pm: well it depends how much shes drinking. A lot of times even my freinds (14 year olds) have a little alchohol hear and there. But i understand why u r consurned. Alchohol can be dangourous, the only thing u should do about it is to try and tell her how much it hurts her and you. Just site her down and try and get her to focas. If it ghets n e worse i would talk to her parents or sibblings.
drjwlc4 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 2:58 pm: well i thinnk that you just have to come out and tell her how you feel she could be doing this so you save her and so just tell her how you feel and that you will do anything for her well i hoped that i helped
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icey0990 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 2:48 pm: You reeeally care about her right? So you cant let her do this without you telling her how much of a mistake it is to you. Dont be afraid to tell her how you feel. Dont wait until its too late! Sometimes all a person needs is for that one person who cares so much (like you do) to talk to them and let them know what they are doing is wrong.
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Link answered Sunday January 30 2005, 7:27 am: Ok well maybe you should like just find the time either tell her parents family or anyone in her family they might be able to help her [ Link's advice column | Ask Link A Question ]
thoushaltloveit answered Sunday January 30 2005, 6:26 am: well, you should really tell her how you feel, but i doubt she will take it the right way. maybe you should let her experiment and learn her lessons. she wont know whats shes getting into until she sees the affects of alchohol herself. there are also programs like AA (alchoholics annonymous) if she has a serious problem. but seriously, if shes like a teenager then shes bound to experiment. you should tell her how you feel though, it will make her think atleast. [ thoushaltloveit's advice column | Ask thoushaltloveit A Question ]
lisamarie887 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 5:37 am: i went through the same thing. you just gotta tell her how you feel and that you care about her alot. if she knows that you care about her then maybe she will finally realize that she has someone who is going to be there for her through thick n thing. u just gotta talk to her thats all. [ lisamarie887's advice column | Ask lisamarie887 A Question ]
briana answered Sunday January 30 2005, 5:11 am: i know how you feel .. my friend was going down the wrong road and im not sure if she still is but anyway.. just keep talking to her .. let her know that your there for you and she doesnt need to resort to alchoal or anything like that. if it still seems to not improve, tell an adult. teacher parent guidence counselor ... jsut let her know your there for here, throught thick and thin!! your a good friend for worrying! lol
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