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Q: Hello, I have a wedding to attend to this weekend and have picked out a potential outfit. I scoured the mall looking for dresses and haven't found one to fit my tastes as I'm rather picky when it comes to dresses. Instead, I have decided to choose an outfit that looks business casual...a pair of nice dress pants, a satin camisole, a black short sleeved (very chic) work jacket, and black stilletto heels. In your opinion, do you think that this outfit would be appropriate for a wedding? I'm not exactly sure especially since weddings usually mean dresses or pantsuits for the older ladies, but since it's in the fall, I think it might be appropriate. Thanks for the help!

i think that would actually look really cute for a wedding.

Q: what exactly is kinesiology? and what are some careers associated with it?

alright well kinesiology is the way we move and how we move with material ( say if u have a gym in your house with a weightbench and an ab exercise machine that you use). in short form its like the way the body works...you could get into carreers such as...massage therapy, or tell about kinesiology at a school... if you go too google or any other wesbsite just type in your question....i hope i helped

xo Lisa

Q: my bestfriend & i sort of slowly drifted apaprt...we just haven't talked, except maybe briefly, in the past 2 or 3 months. we didn't fight, we just sort of stopped talking? should i confront her? i don't really want to be best friends with her anymore, but it seems like i tried to make more of an effort to keep the friendship then she did. should i confront her? if so what should i say? i just want to know WHAT happened, so it is not such a mystery anymore.

wow i know exactly what your going through..me and my best friend stopped talking and I was the one who felt like I was keeping the friendship together...the best thing i can say is ask her about it and if you truly don't want to be her friend anymore then don't. just ask her why you 2 drifted apart and that will definetly releave some weight off your shoulders...hope i helped!

Q: My boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I really like him still but today he asked out my ex best friend. She said no but told my friend she only said that because of me. She told her that she is thinking about saying yes to him. The thing is, she has always hated him. We broke friends because I spent too much time with him and now she's saying she's thinking about going out with him. We're still kind of friends but not as good as we used to be, she knows how I feel about him. I don't think she even likes him that much, why is she doing this?

She is doing this only to get back at you. she wasnt ever your friend in the first place. she wants to try and make you jealous by going out with him. you should either try and talk to her and try adn talk to him about the situation. dont worry good things come to those who wait and as for her well, what goes around comes around.

Q: i know this girl, and i care about her more than anything in the world, but i can tell shes going down the wrong road, i can notice changes in her that i've made, in a good way, but its not enough, shes getting into alchohol now, and that could lead to anything, i've tried talking to her about it but i just cant let out how i feel, PLZ HELP!!! SOS

i went through the same thing. you just gotta tell her how you feel and that you care about her alot. if she knows that you care about her then maybe she will finally realize that she has someone who is going to be there for her through thick n thing. u just gotta talk to her thats all.

Q: im 13 yrs old, and last may one of my friends died. he was 14 and i wasnt really that close to him so i got over it pretty quick. but november 19 my friend (also my crush) died.. he was 14 also.. i dont no what to do.. i've been sleeping in class thinking about him and i just keep dazing off.. i cant pay attention to anything anyone has to say. i no its wierd..but our teacher told us to write letters and burn them so thay will make it up to heaven.. i burn like 3 a day! im really depressed and havent been acting normal.. i cant just "move on" or "get over it" Helllp!

Hey i know what your going through. 3 of my friends died in november and november 19th my grandmom died. You just gotta pray and believe in yourself that you can make it through. they will always be in your heart no matter what. Hope i helped

Q: Ok i guess this isnt really a definite true answer to this question but rather ur opinion. What is True LOVE?

True Love in my opinion is when u think about this person all the time and cant picture yourself with out them!

Q: Okay. My boyfriend and I are thinking about going for the whole oral sex thing...and something about the whole subject really weirds me out. Like, I can't imagine giving a guy a blowjob, but it weirds me out even more to think of him going down on me.
For background, we've been together over 11 months, we've had sex, and we've usually kinda skipped over the oral issue. If it matters, I'm 17 and he's 18. I know I should just wait 'til I'm comfy with the whole idea, but I don't think I'll be comfy with it until I figure out what it is that's weirding me out. Anyone have any ideas?

If your not comftorable with it yet then dont do it. You could also just try it and see how u like it and if u dont then tell him that.

Q: if someone is wearing lime green tights, or pantyhoes or whatever, does that mean anything? like does that mean theyre lesbian or gay?

No definetly not...just because someone is wearing something that they like to wear doesn't mean there a lesbian or gay or bisexual...hey im straight and i would wear it lol!!

Q: i have lots of black heads on my nose..nd well i guess its like dry skin?...or maybe dry puss...nd wen the little white stuff sticks out from the skin in my nose...i pull it out wit tweazers!..nd well it leaves like wholes in my nose!..please help me!!..or if so..can u im me?!....princessmoe2o9

hey this might sound like a crazy idea lol but it works ive tried it. use glue..the elmers white glue just put it on the spots and wait until it drys and then peel it off!! it really does work!!

Q: hey i had already told my friend that i like him and he had liked me but he lost interest in me becuase i am insecure and he said theres a 50 50 chance of him liking me in the future i really like him and i want him to really like me agian and i was wondering what i can do for him to like me again i have been secure lately and i feel theres some other reason why he dont like me but he aint telling me it

If somebody doesn't like you for who u are then they aren't worth it. But if u really like him then talk to him about it and be like maybe we could date and see how things work between us. Theres always a possibility that he will like you again. If that doesn't work then there are always other fish in the sea!

Q: how do you know when you are truly in love with a guy and how do you know when it is the right time to tell him?

You know your in love when all you can think about is him..you fall asleep thinking about him and you wanna be with him all the time...Don't tell him if you just started going out bc then he might think that your really clingy and he might not like that...you tell him when you feel is the right time...

Q: what would be a good healthy lunch for me to eat while i'm at home?? i'm trying to lose some weight and keep healthy. thanks so much!!

Salad and fruits an vegetables...something that doesnt have alot of calories in it or anything like that!!!

Q: i love my bf a lot hes a very good person hes never done anything to hurt me but sumtimes i just get really paranoid and i feel like i cant trust him i think too much and im like what if this what if that even tho i have no reason to not trust him how can i stop being so paranoid?

hey i know how u feel i feel like that with my boyfriend too. all you gotta think to yourself is if he loves me so much as he tells me he wouldn't hurt me or anything like that...you can always talk to him about it too that help!! i hope i helped out a little

Q: How do i loose weight

there area alot of ways you can loose weight...you can even have fun doing it too! if you like to dance join a dance team or go to the gym every once in a while or just go out and play some sports...loosing weight can be fun if u think about it...you don't have to just be like oh well i guess i need to run around the block a few times you can do something that is for for you and your body...Hope that helped!!

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heyyy im lisamarie im 20 yrs old and i love meeting new people and hanging out with people!! im a very open person and if u need an advice on anything just ask because i love trying to help people!!!