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im 13 yrs old, and last may one of my friends died. he was 14 and i wasnt really that close to him so i got over it pretty quick. but november 19 my friend (also my crush) died.. he was 14 also.. i dont no what to do.. i've been sleeping in class thinking about him and i just keep dazing off.. i cant pay attention to anything anyone has to say. i no its wierd..but our teacher told us to write letters and burn them so thay will make it up to heaven.. i burn like 3 a day! im really depressed and havent been acting normal.. i cant just "move on" or "get over it" Helllp!
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awwww!!! im so sorry about your crush! that must suck.. well.. jus keep writing the letters.. but dont burn them.. keep writing them and look back on them.. you will eventually learn to move on.. i know you probly dont want to hear it but your gonna have to move on eventually.. jus hell alwaiiz be in your heaert n i bet he's thinking about you right now! *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi
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Just remeber he's in a better place now, and he will always be with u in your heart =)
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~*NiCoLe*~
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Well, you should find someone else..... He obviously didn't like you.
When someone dies you just don't get over it, so w/e!
BYE!
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Hey i know what your going through. 3 of my friends died in november and november 19th my grandmom died. You just gotta pray and believe in yourself that you can make it through. they will always be in your heart no matter what. Hope i helped
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well all you need is closure... go to his grave and pray and talk to his grave so that he can hear you in heaven... also send him some flowers and wish him a happy christmas!
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Though I am very sorry for you loss, I can almost guarantee that buring letters will not help you get over this terrible event. The the death of a close family member or friend is not something that someone should have to go through by themselves. Spending alot of time alone can lead to other serious problems. Because of this, I recommened you seek the help of a counsellor who has the knowledge and resources to help you get through this terrible time.
"Getting over it" , is just a phone call away.
Good Luck
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i know itll be though but think about all the fun times you guys had. instead of being sad that its over, be glad that it happened! hope this helped
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sorry about your friends, but i dont really think you can just get over it, it just takes time, one of my friends died when i was in 6th grade and i guess im fine, but its been 4 years, but it didnt take that long.
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I think you should talk to your parents about seeing a therapist for a while. Grief counseling is a pretty normal thing to need. It sounds like you need some help getting over this. I'm really sorry to hear about this happening to you. I hope you can get the help you need.
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