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Gender: Female
Age: 23
Member Since: November 30, 2004
Answers: 7
Last Update: December 1, 2004
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Have any of you guys tryed to spray on tan where you stand in the thing and it gives you a tan? If so does it work good and better then a tanning bed? (link)
They work well, it lasts about five days, and it's totally safe, which tanning beds are NOT. Exfoliate with a washcloth or mesh pouf before you go.


my little sister is 8 years old and she just got sick today and no one is going to be home for a week so we cant get to the hospital but she has a temp of 103 degrees and its not lowering at all, does anyone know anything i can do to help lower it or make her feel any better? thanks!! (I rate on how well you answer) (link)
If it gets any higher, you need to call 911 to get her to the emergency room. If it stays at 103 or below, she can take Tylenol or Advil to help bring the fever down. If she seems a lot worse, though, like vomiting, diarrhea, fainting, etc., definitely go to the emergency room. If you can, call your parents (or other responsible person) and ask them what you should do.


im 13 yrs old, and last may one of my friends died. he was 14 and i wasnt really that close to him so i got over it pretty quick. but november 19 my friend (also my crush) died.. he was 14 also.. i dont no what to do.. i've been sleeping in class thinking about him and i just keep dazing off.. i cant pay attention to anything anyone has to say. i no its wierd..but our teacher told us to write letters and burn them so thay will make it up to heaven.. i burn like 3 a day! im really depressed and havent been acting normal.. i cant just "move on" or "get over it" Helllp! (link)
I think you should talk to your parents about seeing a therapist for a while. Grief counseling is a pretty normal thing to need. It sounds like you need some help getting over this. I'm really sorry to hear about this happening to you. I hope you can get the help you need.


Alright, well I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on a Christmas gift. My friend, he is 14 and he loves video games. He plays them non-stop. And I don't have enough money for a game. What would you all suggest I get him as a gift?! Something $30 or less. Thanks (link)
How about a subscription to a gaming magazine? And that way you wouldn't have to worry about buying him a game he wouldn't like.


Yeah im 14 1/2 and I have had sweaty armpits for about 2 1/2 years now , and it still hasnt gotten any better! I have used almost every deoderant and anti-perspirant. i have also tried prescripted stuff. My mom thinks i sweat when im nervous. But that would mean i would be nervous everyday. I just got my period a couple of days ago too. Please Help Me!

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first off, congratulations on getting your period! Second, if you've tried prescription antiperspirants and they didn't work, you need to talk to your doctor about the fact that they didn't work. Certain Dri is good stuff but it's probably just a weaker version of whatever you got as a prescription.

I do think it's possible that your mom may be right and that the sweating may be a symptom of anxiety, since you say you don't sweat when you're being athletic. But you would probably want to talk to your doctor about that too.


Im 14 and about a year ago i started noticing wierd bumps on my thighs and the backs of my arms. The bumps are kinda like pimples they have white dots in them. Even if i dont shave they dont go away. Please Help Me!

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KP stands for keratosis pilaris and that could be what it is (hit Google for info). If it itches, it could be eczema. It could also be ingrown hairs. It might be a good idea to see a dermatologist to be sure, or at least talk to your mom about it.


ok me and my boyfriend love eachother alot but hes the jealouse type. i mean he doesnt have a fit but like when i talk to a guy he gets jealous. like ok today me and my guy friend zak were talking about how zzk was looking at my butt at lunch but it was a total joke we were just playing around but my bf came up behind us and heard and started pushing and hitting zak. and i have talked to him and told him im nto flirting but he still refuses to listen. like and its hard cause most of my bff's are guys. what should i do cause i cant take the pressure of not being able to talk to my bffs and having to hide when i do. i mean i love him and i cant break up with him and i know if he really liked me and trusted me then he wouldnt worry but he trust me i know its just hes jealouse and i cant take not talking to my freidns cause of him. what should i do? (link)
You need to have an honest talk with him and tell him that you love him and you are not interested in anyone else, but that your friends are your friends and he can't control that. If he loves you, he needs to trust you and he needs to be okay with you having any friends you want. It sounds like he is really insecure, but that's his issue, not yours, and he needs to work on it. Maybe he's jealous because he's afraid he'll lose you, but his jealous behavior is making it MORE likely that he'll lose you.




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