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ok me and my boyfriend love eachother alot but hes the jealouse type. i mean he doesnt have a fit but like when i talk to a guy he gets jealous. like ok today me and my guy friend zak were talking about how zzk was looking at my butt at lunch but it was a total joke we were just playing around but my bf came up behind us and heard and started pushing and hitting zak. and i have talked to him and told him im nto flirting but he still refuses to listen. like and its hard cause most of my bff's are guys. what should i do cause i cant take the pressure of not being able to talk to my bffs and having to hide when i do. i mean i love him and i cant break up with him and i know if he really liked me and trusted me then he wouldnt worry but he trust me i know its just hes jealouse and i cant take not talking to my freidns cause of him. what should i do?
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To me this sounds like a trust issue. He shouldn't be jelious of other guys for talking to you. Sit him down and have a talk with him letting him know how much you love and care about him and tell him he has NOTHING to worry about and tell him he needs to change his ways about that. And that your not really flirting with your guy friends your just having fun and that he should understand that. And remember you friends are ALWAYS going to be there for you and sometimes a boyfriend isnt.
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you need to sit down and talk to him. make sure that he knows that you love him, and that you would never do anything...ANYTHING that would hurt him. basically tell him what you told us here. that your bffs are mostly guys, and ur bf has to be ok with that! it is possible that he's scared he'll lose you, but he has to understand that his behavior is making it really hard on u. you don't want to leave him, but if his behavior continues like this, you're going to have to make the dreaded decision-your friends or him. that's up to you, but hopefully it won't come to that. maybe you're guy's also jealous because you're closer to your guy friends than you are to him? i dunno ask him why he's so jealous, and maybe he has a good reason behind it that you just can't see, and then you two can work on it together. so just sit down with him, and have a serious, calm talk about what's going on. hope this helped, and best of luck
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You need to have an honest talk with him and tell him that you love him and you are not interested in anyone else, but that your friends are your friends and he can't control that. If he loves you, he needs to trust you and he needs to be okay with you having any friends you want. It sounds like he is really insecure, but that's his issue, not yours, and he needs to work on it. Maybe he's jealous because he's afraid he'll lose you, but his jealous behavior is making it MORE likely that he'll lose you.
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