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Question Posted Tuesday February 1 2005, 12:03 pm

My boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I really like him still but today he asked out my ex best friend. She said no but told my friend she only said that because of me. She told her that she is thinking about saying yes to him. The thing is, she has always hated him. We broke friends because I spent too much time with him and now she's saying she's thinking about going out with him. We're still kind of friends but not as good as we used to be, she knows how I feel about him. I don't think she even likes him that much, why is she doing this?

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NEVERLETG00 answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 12:59 pm:
well since you guys aren't best friends really anymore, i think thats the reason shes doing that, because she knows that u still like him and she knows what shes doing is getting you mad. i dont think you can worry too much about it, she knows how you feel, and hopefully your exbf knows how you feel too.. its just up to her to decide, boyfriend or your friendship.. xox

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silverkissofdeath answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 12:34 pm:
I'm not sure I can give you very good a very good answer for this one, but i'll try. I think she may have secretly like him the whole time you were going out and what not, but did not want you to know so she wouldn't hurt your feelings? maybe now since you two aren't going out she feels that you don't have feelings for him anymore and thinks you'll be ok with it? I think you should tell her how you feel about this whole situation, she may understand how you feel and reconsider her decision.

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lisamarie887 answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 12:15 pm:
She is doing this only to get back at you. she wasnt ever your friend in the first place. she wants to try and make you jealous by going out with him. you should either try and talk to her and try adn talk to him about the situation. dont worry good things come to those who wait and as for her well, what goes around comes around.

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drjwlc4 answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 12:08 pm:
she could be doing this because she is jelous and maybe she still wants to be your friend and that she didnt want to hurt you and that she wants to be friends or she thinks that you are going to say something to him so i dont know just i hope that things will work out for you and your friend.rate me
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