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my friends gf
i have a guy friend that i am really close to we cant go out 1) bc of distance 2) bc he has a gf right now. anyways his gf is always a bitch to me. i think it is bc she jealous bc i am so close to him and that he cares about another girl(me) and she says shit that he will never do me and that i shouldnt be wastin my time and callin me a skank and trash.... and she says all of this to my best friend well she says shit when she doesnt even noe who the fuck i am and idk what do bc he is a great person and i dont wnat to lose him over s stupid bitch like her?
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She's probably just extremely jealous and insecure about her relationship. Get your guy friend to say something or do something to make her feel better about her relationship. She might just be afraid of loosing him. Hope my advice helps!
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just let her talk her shit.. but you need to tell your friend that you wanna hang out with him some time just you too. and who cares if she hates you just as long as he dont.
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First off, you should talk to your friend about the way his girlfriend has been treating you. If you're that good friends with him, I'm sure he'll understand and won't get mad or anything like that.
Another thing you could do is talk to this girl and try and solve this problem and let her know that you aren't going to do anything to jeopardize their relationship and that she needs to relax(ah the joy of run-on sentences)
You need to convince her that you aren't going to get in the way of their relationship so that way she'll back off and stop being so mean to you. But then, keep in mind, she may not back off and then you should bring your boyfriend into it and ask him to try and get her to stop. Hope this helps.
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Can she clean up her mouth here? She is really unsure of herself, isn't she? To be calling you skank and trash, etc. Has this guy ever heard how she talks about you? Or does she just say it to your best friend? Believe me, if he's the guy you say he is, all he needs to do is hear her say one negative thing about you and it's "don't let the screendoor hit ya where the Good Lord split ya." The girl has very low self-esteem. If your friendship with this guy is as good as you seem to think it is, then I wouldn't worry about it. If he's that shallow and listens to her ranting, then he's definitely NOT worthy of your friendship, which I know sounds trite but is true nevertheless.
It's hard not worry about someone who's talking smack about you when she (1) doesn't know you, (2) is long distance from you and (3) you can't defend yourself. But you have a best friend and a good friend in this guy, so put your faith in them. It should be OK Hope I helped some.
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Well if this is an internet thing...or just a distance thing..just dont talk to her..at all..or at least try to ignore her. She is just jealous of the fact that he has a good friendship with you...this is eating her heart out..and well, hey...she deserves it right? So just ignore her, and keep being his friend. The only time you would lose him as a friend..would be when he is FORCED to by his girlfriend. And if he does listen to her, and never talks to you again..hes not worth it! But I think/hope he wont be like that. Sorry if I didnt help much..
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I can relate with you directly on this one, trust me, I have a really close guy friend who went out with my worst enemy and she began pushing us away from each other. What I would have to say is speak with him right away and let him know what is going on. If he cares about you as a good friend like my guy friend did, he'll speak with his girlfriend. Also try to ignore her the best you can and don't let her comments get to you, knowing they are will only satisfy her and make her want to put you down so she can ruin your friendship. You DO NOT want to get in the condition I was in(I was having a mental breakdown because I always believe I can handle things myself and never ask for help), so tell him and let him know as I said before. The sooner you can get her to stop being mean and possibly have him able to defend you, the better. I hope this really works out, I don't want another girl to suffer as much pain as I did. If he is a true friend... he'll be there for you, no matter what. Good luck, dear.
- Kai -
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