Im kind of unsure about what to do about this one guy I like. I've liked him for a long time and he knows I like him but he doesnt know if he likes me. Last night we went to a party together but the party was really weak. Me and him never danced and all everyone did was chill and talk and eat..and listen to music. There were a bunch of instances of him flirting with me but sometimes him and one of my friends would gang up on me and sometimes they went to far and really got on my nerves. He says that when he does that stuff, hes only playing and he doesnt want to hurt anyone and if he ever does, hes sorry. But now I dont really know what to do. The first time me and him actually went somewhere together and it turned out so lame. I want to go to the next school dance with him but hes going with one of his old friends. He doesnt like her like that but you know how it is when you have a friend you've been friends with for a looong time. I have to admit though, I am a bit jealous.
So anyway, I want to ask him if he likes me because I think Ive given him enough time to decide and next weekend I might go over his house if he wants. His mother already invited me over. I just need some advice on what I should do about all this. I'm still kind of bummed out about the turn-out of the party...
Additional info, added Sunday January 30 2005, 5:28 pm: The dance isn't the only thing I'm worried about and stuff..
Its
-the lame party
-me and him together in general
Everything I talked about..I dunno, I just hope he doesn't regret going somewhere with me... Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? orphans answered Sunday January 30 2005, 11:31 pm: If you really really really like him then try flirting with him, and also try to be good freinds with him. Try to get him interested in you. He might start liking you. After you two have become good friends ask him if he likes any girls. IF the answer is no then go for it! Its no harm done if a gal asks a guy first! but If the answer is yes then you cant realyl do anything about it. JUst continue to try to make him intersted in you and you may as well say goodbye to you adn him going together to the dance, but as a friend you can ask if he wants to dance with you when you two are at the dance. Hope I helped! :) [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
hottdancer134 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 5:22 pm: just ask him to save a dance for you! i'm sure he'll say yes! hope this helps!
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