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do i still like him?
lately, ive been thinking a lot about my first love. thes this other boy and we're pretty into eachother, but i havnt been able to stop thinking about my first love lately. its gonna be a year now that met and we fell in love over the summer. is this normal? is it just cuz he was my first love? or do i still have feelings 4 him? i really like this new guy. its just that i've been thinking about the first one. maybe, its b/c he represents a happy time in my life or hes very special to me or something. i dunno. do i still like him in a way?
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you will never forget your first love. that's a fact you'll always have a place for him in your heart but as long as you can stay friends with him you'll be fine. the prospect of having another guy in your life is what's bringing about these feelings. in your mind you're thinking "is this guy going to be like the first" and "am i going to fall in love with him" my mom always told me about love, that love is like eating hot soup, no matter how many times you blow on it, you're bound to get your tounge burnt once. you'll be fine
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it's obvious, i wish i could answer if you still like him or not, but i cant! only you can! but i can tell you that the reason why your thinking about him if cause he was your first love! but i can understand you still like your first love, and you also like this new guy, but you have to get over your ex, and if it is meant to be, then it'll happen,. but you shouldnt wait around for something that isnt gonna happen! :) you'll be fine, and i hope i helped, ask me anytime!
-JoElen <33
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i think you do..if you didnt you wouldnt spend your time thinking about him even when your with your boyfriend..he obviously meant something great you and you shouldnt let go of it..if hes able to make you feel this way even when hes not with you then you really like him and its obvious..get in contact with this guy because chances are he feels the same way you do..add me to your friends list and let me know how it goes xOx
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You will never forget your first love. You might still have feelings for him, I cannot determine that... Only your heart can.
-Brianna
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It's you're first love and nobody ever forgets there first love you guys probably had a really special ralationship. Probably now that you meet this new guy is why your remembering your first love because every one compares there new guy they like to that special first love but it sounds lie you should give this new guy a chance. Good luck :) Shuree
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I don't think people are exaggerating when they say you can never forget your first love. What you're going through is normal.
Dating is all about trying things out, finding out what you want, and bonding with someone. If it doesn't work out you move on and look for what you really want. Give this new guy a chance and maybe he can fill that space in your heart. You will never forget your first love, but that doesn't mean there isn't room for someone else to fill your heart.
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It is said in the most beautiful love stories that your first love will be endured and left intact in ones memory....precisely how it is left whether you loved and lost or just loved. I can assure you that the feelings you are experiencing are completely normal. Your first love represents memories that once took your breath away, for the very first time. The emotions that you felt are difficult to overcome. Although, I cant assure you that you are completely over this guy... I'ts perfectly sane to say that you do like this new guy, and comparing him secretly in your mind to your old love is also completely inevetable. Don't worry, be optimistic and relieved you actually have someone else, and are not completely dwelling over your first love......Like most casses Time will be the answer to everything...just be patient and let fate take its course.
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Once you love someone they will always be in your heart. It's so normal that you still think of him... but yeah it's okay to think of him b/c he made you happy but don't let that interfere with future relationships you should move on just let what you had with him be momories...
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You most likely still have feelings for him and you'll never forget that first love.. and yes its also normal to think about him every now and then.. you should try to move on anyways tho.. yea you do still like your first love but that doesnt mean you have to go back with him unless you want too.. much luv dez x0x0
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yes you still like him in a way but its always gonna be like that.. i have only been in love two times.. my first love and then now i am in love.. and it took me alot of thinking to figure out if i still like my first love.. but its just one of those things you will never get rid of.. he was a very special part of your life so he is gonna stay in it. so yea you will be fine. just go out with this new guy and just remember that the only reason your thinking about your first love is because he was your first love.
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You will always like him in a way! It's natural.
It's almost summer. You're thinking about the last happy summer! If you really like the new guy, give him a chance. You will make new happy memories with him (hopefully). :)
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Some people never forget their first love. And sometimes, many years later they get together again, and find out that the other person never forgot them. You can't stop your feelings, you have to just feel them, but don't be sad. Life is too short. Happiness comes from inside. What if your first love was gone from this earth, would you never love again, of course not. Thinking about someone that way is actually an honor to them. Maybe some day you will get together again. But if you do like the person you are with, and he is good to you, you should return the favor.
Michele
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