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i dont know what to do
my boyfriend asked me to marry him...i love him so much hes my world.... but i dont want to tell other people because i dont like being center of attention and im just not ready to tell the good news.... but in another way m boyfriend well fianca wants to tell the world abt it.... ive already told him what i thought and he says hes ok with it but he keeps bringing it up.... over and over again that he wants to tell everyone what should i do?
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Well if you love him and if he loves you, then be happy about telling people...its an awesome thing that you should want your friends and family to kno about..just not the whole world...Your friends and family will be happy ( hopefully ) and you should be pumped to marry the guy you love...and others should be too...its a good thing...not bad...just go up to your friends either one at a time or all together and say " hey listen i have somthing to tell you just dont make it a big deal and freak out...ok....( name here ) proposed to me and i said yes..so were getting married....." I hope you have a wonderful life with him...Congrats!...
~Katie Leigh~
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How old are you???? that is the question lol
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Well... if you really loved him you wouldn't care who knew. I am not sayig you don't, but maybe your just not ready. I think he might be asking because he reallly loves you and he wants everyoen to know he loves you... yea... well i was just giving sum input go0d luck
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Aw! That's soo cute. He must really love you. It's obvious!! That's why he wants everyone to know. Maybe this could be your one chance to just take a chance in the spotlight. If it really makes you that uncomfortable, you can tell your friends when he is around and he could do most of the talking. But it's not like they will be asking you 10000 questions. They will just want to find out some details and congratulate you! It's a very big deal to get married :). And you will have to tell them sooner or later. Maybe you could tell them individually on the phone :). Hope that helped a bit. ♥
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THATS AWSOME!!! congrats. i think that just make sure her knows that you dont want to be the center of attention. but meet him half way. tell ur bestfriends. dont just keep it to yourself. hope you live happily ever after!
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How old are you? You should tell people because thats important. And I know you may not like being center of attention but still I think that you should.
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hey hun its ok if you feel that you are ready and are old enough then its ok if you dont want to tell then whole world then thats ok too just tell him how you feel about it again im sure he will under stand thjat telling the whole world wont make you happy and since he loves you he will probably resect that and respect you i hope i helped please rate
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Well i dont think you are ready to be married. If you want to hide that then you arent ready thats like denying the relationship. Thats what marriage is about Love, honesty, and being with eachother until death do u guys part or whatever-trixxy!!
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He loves you, thats why he wants you to marry him. Since he loves you that much, he probably doesn't see anything wrong with telling people. When you're in love, a lot of people want to tell the world. Not letting him tell might actually make him feel bad, and make him think you're ashamed of him or something. Which is ridiculous, you are marrying him, but still. Guys are complex. But if you are shy and don't want to be the center of attention, you should just tell him how you feel. Exactly, and your not wanting to be the center of attention. He'll most likely understand. Or, you could just let him tell a few people that you are both close to, that way he can let out his excitment to someone. He probably feels like the luckiest guy in the world and just wants to tell everyone what a catch he has! It will make him feel estatic that you love him enough to marry him! Good Luck!! Have a great wedding, I wish you the happiest years with your beau!!
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