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Going insane!!
Months ago I meet this guy,fell in love,he was the 1 who said he loved me 1st!! Then we broke-up,but we'd still tell each other we loved each other. Every time we were together something would happen ether we'd kiss or have sex!! (this is after months of being apart) But I'v told him am not a sex toy. & Resently I told him I still love him, he said that he does love me but he doesn't know how strongly, in what way or if he loves me like I love him any more!! I asked him what he wanted to happen between us but he said "I don't know just now" Am so confused & I know no1 else can tell me how he fells but can some1 at less give me some advise on what to do??
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Drop him, The only reason hes toying with you is he wants more sex O_O he doesnt love you at all, just the sex your giving him.
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just wit it out hun ok he might be going through some bad times or he might just truley not knows how he feels about you 2 because he might be getting over you but if he does just remember it was never ment to be and there are lots of other guys out there that you can choses frome but there is going to be one out there that feels excactly the same way you do about them mabey stronger and when you find heim you will know he is the one for you but intill then keep looking and have fun while your doing it i hope i helped please rate
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It sounds like he is just messing with your head. He is using you for his sexual needs. You should find someone who will love you for you and mean it when they say they love you. Trust me, you will know if they really mean it because you will feelthat special connection. hope i couls help. Kelly!
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hes a loser i was in the same situation and it took me a year to relise that i was being used
-*Tori
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stop being a whore and be true to your self. Tell him no. Stand up as a woman and respect your self. Thousands of other guys out there. It's tough if you're wollowing in self pity. But if you are looking for some one to tell you it's okay then you are just lying to yourself. Get out while the getting is good. Yeah you'll hurt for a while but at least you will be able to (some day) know what true love is. And it's not just a guy saying "I love you" it's not having sex or kissing. You have to love you first. So stop! Find yourself first. You are too good for this crap.
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No offence, but it doesn't sound like this guy wants a real relationship with you. I think he just wants the sex and attention. If he said he doesn't know if he loves you the same anymore, but still wants to sleep with you, leave him. He'll admire your gut. If you really don't want to leave him, tell him exactly how you feel, and stop having sex with him, if you can't have a normal relationship for a couple of weeks without sex, it probably won't work. I'm really not trying to be rude! I wish you the best of luck, and hopefully you get the guy!
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tell him how you feel about him, or just move on, because seems to me is that hes just using you for his sexual needs, sorry hun, but if you still love him or like him alot tell him and see what he says to it or his reactions to it is. x0 Renee
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tell him that you care for him and no matter what happens you will always be there for him
tell him that he will always be a close friend of yours also
and stop telling him you love him unless he says i love you then of coarse if you feel the same say i love you too
stop calling him so much
let him call you
stay busy and try to forget about him while doing so
give him space sence thats what he wants
soon enough he will have mad up his mind and either yall will hook up or be friends
but don't let him think that you are desparate to have him back ... then he will think that you will do anythign include make him happy sexually!!
but stay safe and try not to fall apart!
love
gabby
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hiya, jus leave him alone 4 a while and give him some space and time 2 think.
hope i helped.
love angel05
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Well its only him that can tell you how he feels! Ask him again, and explain that you are getting confused with it all. If he cant answer you then maybe you should consider why your in the situation with him.. gd luck x
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