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Member Since: January 6, 2005
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Last Update: January 6, 2005
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Months ago I meet this guy,fell in love,he was the 1 who said he loved me 1st!! Then we broke-up,but we'd still tell each other we loved each other. Every time we were together something would happen ether we'd kiss or have sex!! (this is after months of being apart) But I'v told him am not a sex toy. & Resently I told him I still love him, he said that he does love me but he doesn't know how strongly, in what way or if he loves me like I love him any more!! I asked him what he wanted to happen between us but he said "I don't know just now" Am so confused & I know no1 else can tell me how he fells but can some1 at less give me some advise on what to do?? (link)
stop being a whore and be true to your self. Tell him no. Stand up as a woman and respect your self. Thousands of other guys out there. It's tough if you're wollowing in self pity. But if you are looking for some one to tell you it's okay then you are just lying to yourself. Get out while the getting is good. Yeah you'll hurt for a while but at least you will be able to (some day) know what true love is. And it's not just a guy saying "I love you" it's not having sex or kissing. You have to love you first. So stop! Find yourself first. You are too good for this crap.


Okay, everyone thinks that I made up having a boyfriend. I mean why would my friends think that. It seems so much like I made him up because he was a great guy, and I was too embarassed of friends and family to introduce him to any of them. And he wasn't cute, so I was to embarassed to take any pictures with him, and now the relationship is over b/c he is 18 and I guess he wasn't such a great guy b/c he was cheating on me. But he went to a different school, then he moved to a different state. All my friends think he's made up because if I'm on AOL he isn't, but if he's on then I'm not. How can I get them to understand that my x was made up? (link)
If you need your friends to believe he's real then you've got some emotional issues. If he was real and I'm taking your word for it. Then tell it like it is and tell your friends ya'll broke up and you could use some support. Don't get defensive on them or they will think it's made up.


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there r 3 girls i like at my school, but they all have bfs already with no sign of breaking up, ive been really good friends with them for a while and have gone out with them in the past, i just really miss having a gf and im lookin for advice

ps-dont say look for other girls cuz every1 else at my school is too preppy and green (link)
you are making things hell for yourself. Tell the one you like the most how you feel. Me a man. If it takes you no where. And you really want a girl friend then move on and let those three girls chase after you. Speaking from a woman's perspective I can't resist achievement and confidence when it's covered in a nice man.


i had a bad day today i mean a REALLY bad day what should i do to cheer myself up? thanx! (link)
Collect yourself. Cry get mad. accept your day sucked and was really bad. Remember you are the only one who can make things good for you. The mind is it's own place and in it can make a hell of heaven and a heaven of hell. Do what you want as long as no one else gets hurt. Relax eat what you want. Treat yourself to a full body realaxation. bath, spa whatever. shave your legs. masterbate and feel great. put on lotion and feel good that you can take care of you.




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