ok im a 13/f and i have 2 bffs...one is a 14/f and one is a 13/m. We r all really good friends but lately it seems like they r doin lots of stuff w/ out me and keepin secrets from me. But yet my b-day is in feb. so is there a chance they r doin sum kind of plannin for my birthday or they r jus leavin me out??? plz answer honestly...ill rate good!
curbsideprophet answered Thursday January 6 2005, 6:21 pm: from experience-- 3's a crowd. ive had 2 best friends before and usually theyre good, but it's easy to get left out. talk to them about it, if things dont get better then branch out. im not saying totally ditch your friends, but start reaching out to other kids in your class. it'll be good in high school because you'll have a lot of different friends in different places. [ curbsideprophet's advice column | Ask curbsideprophet A Question ]
i_LOVE_badboys answered Thursday January 6 2005, 6:10 pm: i cant alwasys kno what they are thinking but you should just ask them whats going on and just talk to them about it if they are good friends they will understand and mabey they are doing somthing for your birthday so i would not be worried but if they are still like this after defenetly talk to them because you want to know the truth and mabey they dont relize they are doing it i hope i helped please rate [ i_LOVE_badboys's advice column | Ask i_LOVE_badboys A Question ]
Inga_says answered Thursday January 6 2005, 5:08 pm: I believe from experience that they are planning your SUPRISE (screams that word REAL loud) Party.
jAyMiLyNnE answered Thursday January 6 2005, 4:26 pm: Hey hun... thats how i use to be... its never really good to have like 3 ppl in a group some one is always gonna get left out... just tell them that you feel kinda left out.. i'm sure its nothing and they will fix it... and if it is about your birthday they will try harder to not let you know they are planing sumthing.
Hope i helped.
much love
Jaymi*Lynne [ jAyMiLyNnE's advice column | Ask jAyMiLyNnE A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 4:11 pm: they might be leaving you out of stuff, they could be planning something for your birthday too... who knows?? you should wait till your birthday and then after that if they are still ignoring you then i think you should talk to them about it.
hope i helped!
((steph)) [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
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