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bestfriend or boyfriend
aryt well bak in september.. i started highschool(freshman) and met a ton of new people.. well there was this boy on my bus (well call him john-hes a junior)well i liked him a little. we started talking and we became really good friends. well he went out w| my best friend, and i went out w| his best friend.. but things got really messed up. i think i still have a feeling for him that i might like him a little bit.. and he flirts alot. he's liek my big brother tho and i dont wanna ruin a friendship. idk if i should continue liking him, bc it could turn out to bea great relationship.. or should i just get over himand keep or friendship? hes not the kind of guy to use me, becuz he told me everything wen he was going outW| my best friend, and he isnt the type of guy to do that bc hes been hurt before and so have i. my best friend doesnt like him anymore so im not worryed about her being mad. WUT SHOULD I DO !?!?!?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Keep talking and see where your *friendship* leads because it could lead to something great in the end, and if its not romantic than it could be a great friendship.
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listen i think you should just ask him out and if he says yes then tell him from the begining that you want thing to be the same between you 2 after you guys break up and if he says no tell him you dont want him acting all strange around you like some people do and you still wanna be his friend he sounds like a really good guy i hope you get what you want and just remember that if he really does like you then i bet he will say yes and mabey if he says no its because of the same thing that he doesnt want the friendship being ruined i hope i helped please rate
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Girl only one word to say. BOYFRIEND
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i used to have the same problem!! KINDA!! i liked this guy he was 16 and im 14 and my mom used to date his dad , thats how we met. after they broke up we talked alot we told everybody that we were brother and sister... we were best friends... and we could talk about anything then i realized that i liked him... i told him and he admited that he liked me too... we stared talking about intimite things.. rather then our weekly talks about me and my slumber partys or the winner of the foot ball game we started talking about our feelings for one another and we soon told each other everything..one night i asked him if he had ever cybered and he said no but i would like to if your up for it ... (we didn't) but i knew then that he liked me.. but we had such a great friendship.. i suggested many times that me and him date.. we finally agreed that we would try it for a week.. at then end of the week we would talk about it and then decided weather or not to continue with the relationship... we went out and i thought everythign was great... but he didnt when the week was over we talked about it and he decided that it was too weird for him and that we should just be friends.. i was soo sad.. but its been almost 3 months since im in happy that we're just friends but i also enjoyed taking a chance that if we hadn't have we probibly would still be wondering... but i think it made our friendship stronger! and we still tell each other everything including i love you...
so tell him you like him and suggest a week or trying it all out
you have a car but you wanna new one... you test drive the new car if you like it you buy it... if you don't then you stay with your old car...
(the old car is yall's friendship) (the test frive is the trying of the dating)( the buying the new car is if it goes okay)(the staying with the old car is keeping the friendship because the trying didn't work)
haha
hope i helped
gabby
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just to let you know, high school relationships-- never work out. well i shouldnt say never, but you are most likely not going to get married to the person. plus you're only a freshman, so you have plenty of time. if i were you, i would preserve the friendship. if you do go out it might be awkward at first, you know because you are so close and intimacy might be new territory and be weird. if you break up though, you may not have the same friendship. so this is about you and about what is important. preserving your friendship or taking a jump for limited happiness? OH and the other thing is, he may be someone to date a little further down the line. right now you're kinda young and still testing the waters. if you remain friends then in later years maybe then he could be the perfect option. just take it slow, you have time, you're young and don't tie yourself down. .:.curbside prophet.:.
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