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How to tell him i love him and want him back


Question Posted Thursday January 6 2005, 12:57 pm

my name's gabby im 14
i was dating this guy named brett for 7 days he's 14 also
everything was going great... then it got rocky... we broke up and he said there is a slight possiblity we could hook back up but it wouldn't be now...

here it goes....


I was dating this guy! his 14 and im 14 and we've known each other since we were 5 ( but have never been really close friends) he was perfect for me!! i thought everything was going good! we both agreed that we would talk about everything.. we set bouyndries... he even told me he would never break up with me!! we started talking during class (text messeging) and we were trying to plot a time when it would be great to start telling each other we loved each other ... we agreed that when ever one of us felt that we loved each other we would tell the other one but not expect it said in return! after 5 days of going out i asked him how long he thought we would go out and he said at the minimum a year and i was liek whoa thats a long time but if we really liek each other it could happen right?? well the next day he texted me and said that we needed to talk that night
and i asked him what it was about and he said we'll talk about it later and so i asked him if he was gunna break up with me and he said no and so i was still a lil worried about it and then that after noon after school he told me he would call me back .. and he never did... that night he told my friend to tell me that i needed to move on... so i texted him and said that i loved him and that i would never cheat on him ( since someone told him i was back with my x) and that i would never do anythign to hurt him and that i would give anythign if me and him would hook back up... like 20 minutes ago i texted him and told him that i still cared about him and that if he ever needed anythign that i was would be there...

all i really want is for me and him to go back out... he means everything to me! all i want is a way to tell him that i love him and he means the world to me and i would give anythign to be back with him but i don't want to sound clingy or desperate...

should i call him and find out exactly why he ended that relationship? should i wait for hiim? should i move on?? was i wrong in telling him i love him? is it worth hooking back up?

my friend suggested that i take a break for guys for about a month and forget about brett... but i don't think i can i need him in my life as my boyfriend!!

i know no one will ever understand how great he makes me feel... and i know no one could understand why i criied for 5 hours...

HOW DO I ASK HIM BACK OUT?

please help me!! as soon as you can


thank you!!

x3 always,

Wanting him back


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Additional info, added Thursday January 6 2005, 2:14 pm:
i texted him and told him that i still had feeligns for him and he said okay and then i said " will you please just tell me why we are not together so i can move on with my life" and im still waiting for a response... but i don't wanna go back out with right away cause i know then he'll think he can treat me like crap ya know?
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i_LOVE_badboys answered Thursday January 6 2005, 6:40 pm:
listen hun it was a week im srry if this sounds harsh im not mean i swear i think i twas just a lil bit early to tell him you love him or know for sure if you loved him at all guys tend to tell you lies to get on your good side and have you whipped so you will do what they want you too i say move on i understand that you care formhim but i also relized his type he said he would never break up with you and that was a lie i know how this works its happened to me once before and i found out that after a few months he didnt even like me any more so move on i swear you will get over him i promisei hope i helped

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countryfan answered Thursday January 6 2005, 1:47 pm:
hey, you are still young and there will be other guys in your life. if you really like him just tell him how you feel. and see where that gets you. and if he still doesnt want to take you back. I say give it a rest for a while.
Country fan

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Ask_Breanna answered Thursday January 6 2005, 1:47 pm:
Well you should text him back and say your coming round . Go round to his house and tell him the truth. then the person or people that said your going out with your x take him to them and FORCE them to tell the truth.

Luv Breanna

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NEVERLETG00 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 1:12 pm:
i would call him and ask about why he dumped you, thats waht i would do. i know that you guys have known eachother for like what, 11 years, but since you guys were friends/best friends, i dont think that when you guys went out it made anything better, and you telling him that you loved him i dont think was a good idea.. maybe you guys being friends were better. sorry hun, cheer up there plenty of guys out there, tlak to your friends they'll help you feel better, and whatever, dont ask him back out, there was a reason that you guys broke up and i dont think all of a sudden he'll want to be back together..sorry. x0 Renee

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