IM IN A HEAVY ROCK BAND CALLED THE BANG I SING LEAD VOCALS AND IM ALWAYS HERE TO LISTEN TO YOUR PROBLEMS
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Occupation: PLAYING IN MY BAND
Age: 15
Member Since: January 4, 2005
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Okay, well i am 13 years old, and of course i'm a girl. i go out with this boy who is 16 years old, but we really do like each other. it may sound weird ; 3 year difference, but we really do care about each other. He changed my " havent made out yet " thing, cuz now we have like so many times. We care alot about each other, but him and his friend think that i should do more stuff with him. like fingering and all that. i mean i want to, but i dont want to have sex yet and shit. and im kinda scared and all to give him like a blow job and all. they also want me to smoke weed with them . IDK. and then my friends hate the fact that i go out with him, but i really do like him. what should i do ? thanks =] (link)
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Listen. you want to do these things? ok well then do them. when it comes to sex if you arent ready. tell him. he is 16 and knowing a guy of that age he probably has been shot down many times before. just tell him you want to do stuff with him and alla that just not sex. because you arent ready to make such a big risk. and if you WANT to smoke weed with them go ahead and do it. its a decision your going to have to make on your own. nothing we say can help you honestly. if you both care about each other as much as you do then im sure u can talk to him about it. please rate. xoxo not so confused
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i am a 13 year old girl, and i tried my boyfriend's ciggarette the other day, cuz i just wanted to try. he didnt force me into it, i just wanted to try ; like i just said. so then the next day i craved for one soo badly and i bit my nails which i never did before. and i just want some kinda smoke in mah lungs now ! am i addicted already ? what should i do ? (link)
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Listen although it is possible that you are addicted from the nicatine. it is very unlikely! it is more of a phsycological addiction. which means in your head in case you didnt know. you just like the way it made u feel and thats why you want one. if you arent wanting to smoke anymore than just dont touch a ciggarette and i suggest chewing gum. trust me from experience it helps!! but if you do want to smoke think about what it can do to your body but see its ur body so do what you want. please rate. xoxo not so confused
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is it supposed to hurt when u take out a tampon .. cause when i do it hurts really bad.. (link)
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Supposed to hurt? no but sometimes it does especailly if your not used to using them. the more you use them the less it hurts! trust me! it will all me okay. please rate
xoxo not so confused
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hi,
one of my dreams has been to become a singer but my parents say that if i dont sing in like a talent show at my school then they wont sign me up for anything.. the talent show passed and i didnt try out because i had something else planned for the date that they made the talent show.. ok so ALL my friends tell me that im an amazing singer and stuff ( i dont want to sound concided ) but i dont think im terrible ! any ways.. how can i get my parents to let me go to auditions and signups and stuff.. what can i do to follow this dream ? .. thanks in advance- i rate! :-)
love, singingmyheartout
[ sorry about the length ] (link)
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well, sit them down and explain to them that you already had plans for that date. then offer to sing somewhere like kareoke at a restraunt instead. your parents just dont want you to get hurt. so maybe if you explain to them how important this is to you and then you tell them that if you dont become this soon then it will be their fault and then when u get older and your rich you wont give them any money maybe they will let you!! i know i know sounds stupid but hey anything is worth a shot right?!
thanx for listening,
not so confused
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What are some of those rubber bracelets. Like livestrong-yellow.. what are some others and where can i get them?? (link)
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well hun, there is breast cancer-pink, cardinals-red and some other. you can find them pretty much anywhere but the place you are most likely to find them is the mall. please rate
thanx,
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Hey i have a prob see i liked my friend for a while and i recently found out that he liked me but i ono if i should belive that or not it may be true because i heard it from his friend but he has a g/f so what do i do and i dont wanna ruin the friendship over this either please help ill rate (link)
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You heard this from a friend? number one that is one of the biggest mistakes you cant rely on that. the best thing to do is to ask him directly and accually most guys find it very attractive for a girl to ask him personally. number 2 you need to ask yourself a question. now i want you to ask yourself, is this relationship worth losing a friendship over? if you honestly are that good of friends with him then he shouldnt stop being your friend over this. just talk to him about it. i know your thinking god what a cliche. but sometimes cliches work the best.
thanx for listening,
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i like 4 guys and i ono which one i should hook up with i dont know which one i like the most but i know they all like me what should i go? (link)
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i think you should just do what you want to do i mean or u can wait and hook up with the first one that asks you out!!!
thanx,
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i think my best friend doesnt like me anymore its just somtimes well ok alot of times recently she seems really pissed at me and it seems like she trys to avoid me but i ono please help me out (link)
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Listen i know sometimes it seems like she doesnt i mean i have been through this too. dont talk to her about it because then she might get mad that your accusing her of this. ask yourself these questions: how often do YOU call HER? if its less than once a day she may feel that your depending on her and she may feel that u dont wanna talk to her. do you complain about her to other friends? maybe you just are getting sick of her and u think she doesnt like you. are you rude to her? like do you act snobish towards her? have you recently told her to back off? if you have she may still like you but she just feels that you have either been keeping things from her or that she is just backing off the only way she knows how, by keeping away from you! ok well if you have any more questions about this or have any problems then ask me a question on my column.
thanx,
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