Member Since: January 4, 2005 Answers: 6 Last Update: January 4, 2005 Visitors: 846
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Okay..well theres a guy im going out with and its been a month and a half and well, i need to know a way i can break up with him, and well ive seen many questions like this asked before, plz dont tell me to tell him the truth..becuz everyone is saying that, all i need is to know what i should say to him but in a way where he wont hate me because we go back..we are good friends and im afraid if i break up with him it wont be the same :( but ill rate high!
Plzz just gie me some ideas.
Signed, confused4life
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I would tell him the truth. Just say, "you know, don't think this is working anymore. I just don't feel the same way I used to feel. I don't want to lose you as a friend, because you are awesome, but i don't want to date you anymore." Or even say, like "i know this sounds corny, but can we just be friends, i like you a lot, but not in that way anymore" hopefully you make the transition successfully lyl chloe
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i think my best friend doesnt like me anymore its just somtimes well ok alot of times recently she seems really pissed at me and it seems like she trys to avoid me but i ono please help me out (link)
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I think you should tell her that you think she has been a jerk lately. If she is mean to you, then I would just forget about trying to be her friend. Hang out with your other friends until she tells you what is wrong. If she is truely your best friend, she will get over whatever it is. I hope i helped...lyl...chloe
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Everytime someone compliments me I think they just want something from me and they are scheming against me. Everytime I get supposedly good news I think its a bunch of bull and that its not true. I'm not a pescimist, I think realistically but I feel like nothing good can happen in my life and I'm always alone. Is there something wrong with me? (link)
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I think there is nothing wrong with you. It sounds like you have just had some bad experiences, and don't really trust others yet. Try to look on the bright side. If someone says something mean, just think about something you have that they don't, or how you are better at something. Even thinking about how she doesn't have the same awesome friends as you will work. It sounds corny, but it really works. I missed out on a lot when i was thinkink about how mad i was at people for lying to me. just forget about them. lyl ~~chloe
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I love gymnastics, but I went to this one gym and I had no friends there. Yes, i am pathetic like that. So I switched gyms and it seems like they don't really like me there either so I don't really have any friends there. And it's a pretty lonely 3 hours each night when no one really likes you or talks to you. i love competing but i just have no friends there are theres no other gyms around. the only reason i don't want to quit is because i love tumbling and i'll get fat and won't be known as the strongest girl in my school anymore. but i love gymnastics i just dont have friends and i hate wearing a leotard. should i quit? i only went to 2 practices at this new gym, but i don't really like it. i'm gonna look like an idiot quitting after this soon, but i don't want my parents to buy all the new team leo's, warm ups, and evrything (link)
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I don't really know yo so I cannot say for sure, but maybe you need to talk to them more. If you don't really talk to them, they obviously aren't going to want to be your friend. Also make sure that you don't ever brag or show off your skills. That will only make them dislike you. hope i helped ~~chloe
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I have a pretty big emergancy...
My boyfriend gave me a hicky like 30 minutes ago and I was wondering if theres ANYWAY to help speed the process of it disapearing?
please help if my parents see this then i'll get killed!
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I heard that putting ice on it helps
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Everytime someone compliments me I think they just want something from me and they are scheming against me. Everytime I get supposedly good news I think its a bunch of bull and that its not true. I'm not a pescimist, I think realistically but I feel like nothing good can happen in my life and I'm always alone. Is there something wrong with me? (link)
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Just allways look on the bright side. I think there is nothing wrong with you, you just have probably had some bad experiences with people and don't really trust them anymore. hope i helped ~~~ chloe
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