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dump him
Okay..well theres a guy im going out with and its been a month and a half and well, i need to know a way i can break up with him, and well ive seen many questions like this asked before, plz dont tell me to tell him the truth..becuz everyone is saying that, all i need is to know what i should say to him but in a way where he wont hate me because we go back..we are good friends and im afraid if i break up with him it wont be the same :( but ill rate high!
Plzz just gie me some ideas.
Signed, confused4life
xoxo
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okay...two of my friends just broke and their realli close. their still realli close and nothin happened between them....just be like its been great/fun an all but i just dont think we sould go on honestly if he likes u enough he'll understand why u wanna break up wit him <3 hope i help shan <3
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Tell him that you would rather be friends with him,
~Brina~
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i think you should tell him its just not working out right now and that you dont think you should have a boyfriend right now but ask if you can still be friends because he is a great friend and you want it to stay that way i hope i helped please rate
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I don't know if this qualifies as 'Tell him the truth', but...
Why do you want to break up with him? Think about that, and be honest with yourself. You have an obligation to YOURSELF to be happy as long as you're being honest about it. If that means you need to be apart from him, there's no crime there. Do you just not feel the same way about him? Is there a guy that you'd like to try and see casually? Ask yourself these questions, and yes. Be honest. If you and your friend really DO go back, he should understand. He may not like it, and you two may have to stay away from one another for a bit, but the friendship should be strong enough to handle it.
Good luck,
Ecx
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i know exactly what you mean about not wanting him to ate you the same thing happened to me. i know this isnt what you want to hear, but you have to kinda tell him the truth, or part of the truth. bt if not you can alwyas go with... "i dont realy think this is working out, i htought we were better as friends and i just wanna go back to the way things were" or something like that. goodluck!
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dear confused4life ,
well it sounds like your looking for an easy way out and i just might have it for you trust me ive been there plenty of times if you dont want to tell him da truth just tell him you missed how you guys were before and it is starting to feel kind of akward and you would like trying to be how you use to be good friends and thats it for now and tell him no matter what you will always be there for him
*if you get confused you know who to ask im here fer you ,* dreamingofyooh *
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Dear confused4life,
I had to go through the same situation. Friendships are precious things and sometimes the fear that relationships will ruin them pressure people into making bad decisians. Tell him you value him as a friend and that he's like a brother to you. Tell him that you liked it when the two of you could hang out without you worrying how your hair looks or what you're wearing. Tell him you know he deserves better (even though that's probobly not true because I'm sure you're great). Guys like it when girls like us tell them they mean alot to us even if we're dumping them. Play it cool and tell him this was the hardest decisian you've ever made but it had to be done. If you ever need any other advice, feel free to ask me a question directly at my column. ♥ iCY iS ALWAYS LiSTENiNG ♥
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confused4life,
Tell him like o my mom doesnt like the idea of me dating right now or i love you alot but i cant have a relationship right how. Or somthin like that good luck! <3 American Girl
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tell him you really love him. .but just arent ready for a relationship.. but sometime in the future you wil lbe really great together.. but you just have to sort yourself out first...
although it is better to tell the truth.. but meh.. oh and he will hate you more if you lied to him and he found out but you dont want to tell the truth so try the above :)
Hope this helps :)
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Just tell him that you really liked being single, and that you guys were closer before you went out and that you would just like to be friends again.
*Kate*
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I would tell him the truth. Just say, "you know, don't think this is working anymore. I just don't feel the same way I used to feel. I don't want to lose you as a friend, because you are awesome, but i don't want to date you anymore." Or even say, like "i know this sounds corny, but can we just be friends, i like you a lot, but not in that way anymore" hopefully you make the transition successfully lyl chloe
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okay a way to say it where he wont hate you would probably be to say " im sorry it cant work between us" " can we just be friends?"
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