ok im 13 and my stepsister is 14!! we hang out all the time and shes really cool and i love her to death but i think im becoming jealous of her! she just started highschool and seniors already asked her out, shes capitan of the freshman cheerleading squad, she's really pretty and popular, is always invited to partys and has her own partys, she has alot of guy friends and girl friends, always has guys over at the house, always has a bf!! my dad and her mom spoil her rotten! anything she asks for she gets! and everything i ask for i have to earn!!! my parents always pay attention to her and not me and i feel left out of things! shes even going to california! shes already had her bf spend the nite! and its not fair! and i don't know wat do! please help me!!!
Inga_says answered Thursday January 6 2005, 5:18 pm: Hello. You should sit down with your parents and your stepsister. You should tell them to not say anything until you are done talking. DO NOT YELL OR SCREAM! That will just make things worse. Tell them how you feel and tell them what you wrote in your plea for help, but do not sound mad. Keep a nice-volumed voice. This will help them see that you are mature and reasonable. Also, when they do have a chance to speak, tell them to take turns and not yell at you. I hope that everything turns out good. Stay calm and do not fret!!
kelly14 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 5:15 pm: You should tell her how you feel and ask her how she does it. Try taking some tips from her. In a litle bit of time, you could be just like her. But then again its always good to be an individual. hope i could help. Kelly! [ kelly14's advice column | Ask kelly14 A Question ]
kevin413 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 5:14 pm: Classic case of Marcia and Jan Brady. You feel like shes way better but she prolly doesn't look that much better than you in the first place. Have you hung around guys at school,tried out for cheerleading,and have your own parties? Don't be jealous of her,people have her under a huge microscope judging her every move. It's not the way with you. That's a good thing. Plus youre only 13. You'll look good in about 3 or 4 years. [ kevin413's advice column | Ask kevin413 A Question ]
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