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well im confused about my relationship
Hey im mike and 14/m. Well me and this girl we'll call joan have been dating on and off since october and we just got back together after 2 weeks. well i love her and all but im not sure where are relationship is going. We talk on the phone alot and we hang out like every week almost but i feel empty inside sometimes. I've hurt her once (emotionaly) and dont want to do it again can someone help??
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Hey mike is this mike s. from my spanish class?? i thnk it is!, just wondering bc if so you no what i think about ashley but if not then you should look for someone else. Obviously she is not the right person. YOu need someone who will be there for one at all times and not that keep dumoing you and then going back out! hope i could help kelly!
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if you really love her then you won't hurt her emotionally again. if you really do feel empty though then it will just hurt more if you break up with her later...just end it now if the feelings arent there. maybe if you give it some time and are really open with each other it will help...but you gotta like the girl to want to be with her. if your always on and off maybe its not ment to be...plus your 14, you don't need anything to serious...hope that helped!
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Hey Mike,First you need to find out where the emptyness is coming from.IF you ask me i just think you might be feeling giuilty about hurting "Joan" once before. So if I were you I would sit her down and talk to her. Tell her that you hurt her once and you don't wanna do it again!hope i helped and everything works out!! xOxO NiCoLe
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wow guys have emotional feelings too how sweet. ok sry some of my guy friends just act like dicks to all the girls they date and they dont ever care about how much they hurt the girl. So its nice to see a guy who cares.I think you should talk to her and gain her trust back that will make you feel better but im not sure it will make the emptyness go away.And since your only 14 your probably not gonna marry this girl so if things dont work out just always look on the bright side - you have a long time before you need to think about marrige.Just try to have a lot of phun with her and be yourself even around your friends, dont turn into a jerk whose all well guyish .And if you do break up again and you say your gonna stay friends try to atleast stayfriends.LIke still talk to each other ,dont let that ackwardness get imbetween the two of you .If you need to talk about it you can im me on one of the following-imshortie2b13(old aol sn),lilpnkbrn,lildumblonde820,kissachrry,pocsocbocluv or you can email me at insanlykrazie76313@yahoo.com
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Mike, you need to figure out where that emptyness comes from. It's not right to be with her if you having second thoughts about things again. I'd say try to sit her down and have a seriuos conversation about where you two see things going. Sometimes that's all it takes. You might see that things turn out a lot better after that.
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Just be yourself around her. Dont be a jerk when your around friends and what not. Just be yourself as i said before. Hope your relationship works out for you and your girlfriend
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