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Friend Problem..
Well I have this friend and everytime I talk she just says shut up or no one cares or something mean but sometimes she says she is joking after she says it but most of the time she doesn't.I don't really have the courage to go and tell her how I feel because she is not the kind of person that would actually care.Or she would just tell me something mean..What should I do?Sorry if it is long!
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well if you don't have the courage to talk to her and tell her how you feel write her a letter. it would be alot easier than talking. if your friend has go at you becasue of this then i wouldn't be her friend obviously she isn't a very nice friend if she is saying awful things like that to you, even if it is only a joke, tell her its only a joke if the other person is laughing aswell( and in your case you're not)tell her that it upsets you when she says these things and try to work things out. i hope i have helped
Luv Shelly
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talk is right back at her ..... and find new freinds.. nobody wants a stuck up bitch going on like that all the time go have fun
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Dont be her firend, its obviouse that she doesnt wanna be your friend, so just stop hanging out wiht her and make new friends
K
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use common sense and ditch her. If she's always like this, then she's barely a friend. if you cant confront her, then try explaining the situation to an adult that CAN help u. there's no point in hanging out with a bitch
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dear friend with problem.... if you dont want to tell her how you feel because your afraid that she will just say shut up other ignorent coments... if she does it when there are peeps around it meens shes just trying to be the leader...the center of attention.... if thats the case when you are with her and other friends, and shes talking you through a couple of coments at what shes saying. later on then confront her and ask if she like what you were doing to her when you were talking. she will probably say no it was rude or be a little pissed of... then just say well i dont like it when you do that to me!she will probably realize what she is doing!!!!! also that its not very nice....if shes doing it when you guys talk alone then well you should talk to her abt it if she dosnt listen then maybe she isnt a very good friend.... good luck
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Hey i ha a frined just like that. She says the same to me and always puts me down. She always said she was kidding but it didnt seem like that. so i started hanging out with new people. When she relized that we weren't really frineds anymore, she came back to me and asked me why. So i told her the truth and told her i couldn't have a frined that made me have a low self estem. Now we are frineds again and she hasn't put me down since. I hope i could hope. Kelly!
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I personally think you should go out and find yourself a new friend. That's down right mean, rude, crude and ignorant to do to someone you consider a friend. And if you are too frightened to tell her how you feel, which you shouldn't have to do, just don't. Go looking for new friends. I'm sure she'll figure it out and approach you as to why you aren't talking to her anymore.
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Is this person really a friend you want to have? I dont see the whole friend relationship, maybe I'm just assuming from what your saying but if you can't talk to your friend about it that's a problem. Why do you want to be friends with her if she always says shut up and no one cares? well anyways the next time she says that just say are you joking or are you serious? Don't be afraid to ask, she shouldn't get mad over a simple question. Good luck, I hope she understands
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