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NOOOO!!! IM SOO SADD!!


Question Posted Tuesday July 5 2005, 10:01 am


ok,i went to NH with my friend and missed this party. There was a girl there and i didnt want her to be friends with MY friends. 2 girls -- Jill and Sandy are my friends and i didnt want her to be friends with this girl Tiana. I just dont want them to like her more than me..i know im being a bitch but i dont want Tiana to be friends with Jill and Sandy..Sandy told me she was acting like her bffl...and that made me kinda pissed.. how can i accept that Tiana is going to be friends with them? Tiana used to be my good friend but we split up..and i just want everyone to be friends and i can accept it.


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Additional info, added Tuesday July 5 2005, 11:23 am:
and now Jill and Tiana are like... BEST BEST BEST buds and im just left out...Tiana dosent like me [[i dont think]] and she'll turn them all against me she has an outgoing personality and she can be described as just plain "osm" i want to be like that how can i do this?! IM SOO SADD THAT THEY ARE FRIENDS AND I DONT KNOW WHY !

*********Tiana used to be my best friend and we split up..i joined the other group..and now that shes there its weird..i just wish i NEVER met her how can i deal with this??! ********
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HckyAg89 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 1:28 am:
I know this sounds alot easier than it is, especially because people are always trying to preach about originality, but try to fit in with them, even if you do hate her now, people change, and someday you two might just be best best best friends, and thats the best thing someone could ask for in the world, so embrace the oppertunity.

wow that sounded gay, but it was the best i got.
lol, hope i helped!

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KATAxTHExADViCEgURL answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 1:32 pm:
uhmm.. lets see, so you can`t except tiana being friends with your friends, jill and sandy. well, this sound corny but, i think that you should TRY your best to accept her. Even if it seems like your being left out, try doing things with all four of you together. If you were friends with tiana before, then what`s making things so different now? if i were you, i would just learn to forgive & forget.

hope this helps!
xo0x- Kata

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LoveNJstyle answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 11:42 am:
o dear. ok its fine this happens to everyone, just dont let the jealousy get to you to the point where you do bad things to tiana...it will only make you look bad. my friends did that to me a number of times so what i didnt is became friends with the tiana in the group. that way, if jill and sandy ditch you, there is a potential friend to be with and she wont turn your friends against you because shes your friend. your not sure that tiana doesnt like you...maybe you should ask her or just be really nice to her and see what she does. being mean to her will hurt you more that her. it will take time but i think you will overcome it! <3

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Teza answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 11:34 am:
You just seem way jelous but thats fine. Just dont like Tiana take her away from you and stuff. Do you even like that girl? Well I think that all 4 of you should be friends and hang out and you just wanting her for yourself. Stop being bitchy and stuff and just try to get along.But if you guys were close before then Jill will still always be your best friend its just that she can be close friends with some people also. So you all should just hang out and stuff! Talk to Jill about it tho. &hearts;//

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steriotypicalblonde292 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 11:14 am:
have you tried talking to them? i mean try getting them together and tell them what your feeling. its alright to have your best buds have other best buds... and i know its hard to accept these facts... but if you truly want to stick will jill and sandy then just try to stay in there. results are bound to come up eventually... and if they don't then be straight up with yourself... i mean DON'T be someone who your not... that'll probably get jill and sandy a bit angry... and if things won't work out between you, jill, tiana, and sandy... then try to move on... a lot of people will come and go out of your life, and you'll just have to hang in there till you can find true best buds. well i hope this helped.

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StArGiRL75 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 10:57 am:
JUST PLAY THE IM-JUST-LIKE-YOU CARD! Act like her...outgoing. Pretty soon you wount b acting like her...you'll b acting like yourself. (I used to b shy but now i am outgoing...believe it or not to some people who might b reading this)...I think you should just b outgoing and keep an open mind and just include everyone and soon you eount have a problem. AsH!

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