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this guy


Question Posted Tuesday July 5 2005, 9:54 am

ok so i really want to know if this guy likes me.i swim and he is on my swim team, and like when we go underwater he always smiles at me and waves, and when we do drylands he always pats me on the back or playfully hits my arm, and when we kick and stuff like that we always talk the whole way. i mean he is great, he is nice to me and everyone else, he is actualy my height and everyone likes him. whenever we go to swim meets he tells me to cheer for him because he wont do well unless i do. and he asks me to hold stuff and he just goofs around w/ me and he talks to my friends a lot. does he like me?

thnx! 5's for everyone!


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Additional info, added Tuesday July 5 2005, 10:58 am:
i forgot to mention that im turning 14 in 19 days and he is turning 14 in 12 days...we are a week apart..

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cookierat123 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 6:53 pm:
well, of course he likes you! that is all of the clues gurly! go for it and ask him out already! i hope you love birds hit it off! feel free to drop off something in my inbox if you have questions.

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Irishdude405 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 4:31 pm:
It Sounds like he likes you, GO FOR IT GIRL . It sounds like you to get a long great and take this word of advice from a guy, he likes you i can tell from reading it but dont get weird around him because that'll make things awkward. GO FOR IT. tell me what happens later ok!?

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Britty_x3 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 3:47 pm:
it sounds like he might like you, you should get one of your friends to ask him, and see where it goes from there, when or if he flirts with you flirt back that will give him the sign tht mayb you like him to

hope i helped!

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Ambix3 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 3:04 pm:
Aww, he sounds really sweet! Sounds to me like he likes you. I would try and talk to him and tell him how you feel! Maybe you guys will make your relationship to the next level. Good luck with him and swimming!

Hope I helped <333

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Sammerz619 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 2:45 pm:
Well it depends on the kind of guy he is. He seems like either the Big Flirt or Big Crush..Big Flirt means hes really good friends with you and likes hanging out with you and enjoys flirting and having a good time, but he might not want a a commitment. However, he could be a Big Crush and really really likes you and is doing all this to get your attention. you have a 50/50 shot so my advice is flirt away and see what kinda repsonse you can get outa him. I hope a helped. Sammerz

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xOtWiXi answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 2:23 pm:
There is a DEFINITE high chance of him liking you, but don`t get your hopes up just yet. Try flirting back and seeing what happens. Ask him if he wants to go see a movie with you - that should definitely tell as well, because he`d be alone with you for the movie, or you can invite friends and ask him to sit with you. The key thing is to TALK with him and see more and more about him. Just don`t move too fast, take everything one step at a time =] Good Luck and if you need anything else, feel free to message! Hope I`ve Helped &hearts;

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VanityScore answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 12:05 pm:
I don't know. It sounds more like he's treating you as a friend... which means he probably doesn't like you (sorry, but honesty is the best policy)

You can change the fact that he doesn't think of you in a more than a friend way. If you want to. I think it sounds like you like him.

Flirt. Laugh. Smile. Ask him to go places with you. Hint that you like him. Treat him differently than everyone else. Pay more attention to him. Every chance you get, talk to him.

So, good luck.

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StArGiRL75 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 11:04 am:
Thats so cool...you 2 are a week apart! I think you should ask him to do something some time! Unless he asks you first. (Obviously...) If you say hes great and he always basically flirts with you...then do somethin about it! AsH!

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mr.niceguy answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 10:56 am:
yes and this is coming from a guy if he goofs off and tells you to cheer for him than yes he definately likes you

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xcuriousx0 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 10:40 am:
hey,
its pretty possible that he does like you. you can never know for sure though thats the only reason i didnt straight out say "yes he likes you" boys are really hard to understand (im sure you know that already) so its easy to missinterpret things. for instance, he could totally flirt with you 24/7. in his mind he could be going for more of a friendship status with it. but to you, it might seem like he has feelings for you. so anyways...with that said i think you should see how he treats other girls on the swim team. like if he flirts with them as much as he does with you. If you notice a definite change (like if he flirts with you alot more than he does with them) than that means hes giving you extra attention so he most likely likes you. Try flirting with him back and giving him signes that your interested. see what happens.
**mucho love!**
kayla xo

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mushoku answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 10:40 am:
It's quite likely. I don't know how old either of you are, nor have I met you, so I'll give you some possibilities.

First is that he likes you. If this is the case, don't rush things, build a friendship first - he sounds like a great guy, and building a relationship on a friendship means the relationship is more likely to last, and even if it doesn't, you're a LOT less likely to lose him as a friend.

Second is that he's just a real sweet guy and just wants to be friends. If this is the case, allow the friendship to develope, and it may or may not turn into something more later on.

Third is that he's gay. Don't think I'm saying that he is, just that it's possible. Most straight guys aren't comfortable enough around girls to act like that since their attraction to females makes them nervous.

There are other possibilities, and variations of the ones above, but I think those are the most likely.

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