I've never been in a relationship before & I'm 13 years old. I've liked guys & they've liked me back but I've never really gone the extra step. Well now, my guy friend likes me & I like him too. We want to be more than friends but what should I expect from a relationship? Will things be weird at first?
Britty_x3 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 3:45 pm: yeah it probly will be pretty weird at first, but thts ok, if yall liek eachother you should ask him out, or if you want wait for him to ask you out
Ambix3 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 3:22 pm: At first, it might be kind of akward, cuz your thinking "Wow. He's my boyfriend now, not just a friend". But then you'll get used to it. Just talk to him like you did when you guys were just friends. Call him - but not like obsession. Hope everything works out with you two.
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Amber922Nicole answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 2:32 pm: Well, Things might me weird for you at first. But, just go out with him and have fun, See you have to act the same as you guys did before. It's just now that you go out with him. And you say I love you and that kinda things. And you actually might kiss!
jbdreamer answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 1:33 pm: Your only 13, you can't expect a relationship from a 13 year old boy. Girls want love and romance, boys just want to a chance to feel up a girl. They are not looking for a serious relationship, nor know what one is. For now I would just stay friends, and wait until these boys are man enough to have a relationship.
I know, my little brother and all his friends are 13, and they are in no way ready for a relationship. They are just kids that play video games! [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
kitty_kat123 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 1:28 pm: Of course, it's going to be weird at first. All relationships are like that. It's not because you don't like that person anymore. It's because you like that person A LOT and you're shy. Even if you have known him for a while, you still get shy because you have never been this way before with him. I had a friend named Jackie and she wanted to go out with this guy, Pete. Well, she felt the same way as you and you know what she did? She broke up with the guy! Trust me! That's not the right thing to do because you'll just feel bad about it later. You'll get used to the person once you start hanging around him more and you'll feel shy less and less as you prgress into the friendship. If you want to talk or need more advice on ANYTHING, I'm here for you and my email address is kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
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VanityScore answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 12:01 pm: Things are usually weird at first when you go from being friends to being boyfriend and girlfriend. You can't really know what to expect.. it's different with every relationship. Sometimes it's more like 'just friends' and other times it's more like all over each other (of course there's an in between of those, which is where you probably want to be)
Just go with the flow. Go out with him a few times as more than just friends. If he doesn't make a move, you make one. It'll be nerve-wracking, but worth it. [ VanityScore's advice column | Ask VanityScore A Question ]
Teza answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 11:43 am: Yes things would be a little weird at first but if you ever start feeling a little uncomftrable and stuff dont break up with him! Most people do that and then they end up regreting it! Once you start going out it will be weird but if you give it a month or so both of you would be comftrable and get used to that you are going out. I dont really know the best way to explain. There's not much things you should expect from a relationshp its just that normal boyfriend and girlfriend things. ♥// [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 11:38 am: yep things will get really weird between you. if you guys used to talk about just anything, that will change...it wont be as easy. as time goes on (give it a few months) youll get more used to it and be a bit more comfortable. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
steriotypicalblonde292 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 11:08 am: hi. of course things might be a bit weird cuz your just starting out. but after a while you'll get used to it and when you feel comfortable good things will come into line...or possibly bad things ((depends on his/your feelings)) but usually wanting to know what to expect is something no one can answer cuz no one really knows whats going to happen... i mean different things will happen with different people. to let ya know... the first break up is ALWAYS the hardest. ok well hope this helped ya out a bit. [ steriotypicalblonde292's advice column | Ask steriotypicalblonde292 A Question ]
sweetestthang574 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 10:39 am: Yea, things will be very wierd at first and if you feel uncomfortable DONT DUMP HIM! You'll regret it.. just try to get used to it and you will! You'll probably get your first kiss from him on like the second day!
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