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I Love Him..?


Question Posted Monday July 18 2005, 8:43 pm

Okay, well.. I've known this kid for like, ever! Since he moved here. And I was his FIRST friend when he moved up here. Well, anyways.. I liked him when I was little. But then I thought, that's kinda weird cause he's my best friend..So then I just started to like him this year. And, I tried to get over him, but I can't. What's your advice for me? What should I do???




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Girl2GirlbM answered Monday July 18 2005, 11:06 pm:
Well you cant make you're feelings just dissapear if theres something there! Have you ever tried to talk to him about it? If not then how do you know that he doesnt fall the same. they always say the best relationships start with friendships. Plus, it makes it all much easier.. because you wont have to go thru the first && most important stage, "getting to know eachother" because you already do. So go for it babe!! And talk to him!<33

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x_pink_x109 answered Monday July 18 2005, 10:20 pm:
Hey!
You're not the only one who has been in this situation. I have. I have known this boy since I was 2 years old and I started liking him a long time ago but then, my best friend started liking him so I stopped. Then, when she stopped, I started liking him again. And we ended up going out.

The catch is go for it! You know him really well, which will make your relationship work!

You will know what he likes and you will know everything about him. Therefore, you know that he will not do anything to break your hearts because you guys are best and will continue being best friends until the day you die. Relationships like that never fade.

Those kind of relationships are the best ones a person can have. When you like your best friend (opposite OR same sex) and you end up going out with him/her, you'll have a REALLY good relationship because you know each other so well.

Go for it!

Flirt a little and if he starts to hesitate or pull back, stop but if he smiles and finds to like it, keep going!

You'll do great! I know it!
Just don't give up on love. But remember this... if love is meant to happen between you two, it'll happen. Don't force it! Let it flow gently.
You know where I am if you need to talk or something. Also, feel free to email me ANYTIME at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com O.K?

Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
&hearts; Kayla

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hottie7not4free answered Monday July 18 2005, 10:20 pm:
if u like this kid so much then ask him about how he feels and see if he feels the same way and then hitt it off from there

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tearcatcherXcore answered Monday July 18 2005, 10:04 pm:
this happens a lot. best friends get feelings for each other. you either like him or you dont but either way its fine. maybe you can talk to him about it. he might feel the same way :] hope i helped <3

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BumbleBee035 answered Monday July 18 2005, 9:24 pm:
This has happened to me before. Don't worry about it though. Either tell him you like him or try to get over him and find another guy. If you do find another guy, you can always go to him for advice and stuff.

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steriotypicalblonde292 answered Monday July 18 2005, 9:19 pm:
Well, some people who have been best friends for years might develop feelings for their best friends... I mean it just plainly looks like that you can't get over him... but listen to your heart and NOT your head. Try, if you can, to tell him what's going on on the inside and since he's your best friend than he'll most likely understand, but if he has not developed a feeling for you then he'll just probably say that he just wants to be friends or something. Just remember that it's alright to have a crush on your best friend, but if you 2 do become an item but then break up, you won't be able to have your best friend to talk to. I hope this helps you out! ^_^

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cookierat123 answered Monday July 18 2005, 9:01 pm:
GO FOR IT BABE! life is too short not to take some risks every now and then, right? tell him how you feel? &hearts; hope i helped.

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Xxprettyeyes187xX answered Monday July 18 2005, 8:58 pm:
just tell him how you feel..whats the worse thing that can happen? maybe he likes you to...if you dont tell him how you feel your just going to regret it later..maybe if he dont like you more then a friend after you told him how you feel you might get over him..

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