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i am kind of jelous
my friend is having her birthday party tonight, she invited a few of my other friends that arent really friends with her, but this girl didnt invite me and we are really good friends and it kind of makes me jelous of my other friends and a little mad at this girl... what should i do to feel better??
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The same thing happened to me! I felt the same way. It could be she could only have a certain amount of people ( thats what happened 2 me ).. but i was kinda madd.. and confused. So i tlaked to her the day after her party and told her i felt left out . We talked and she explained it totally made me feel better. So my advice is talk to her and see what she says? ..Did i help? Rate me =)
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Well i say just like forget it. Cause one of these days she well soon to find out that she had asked u to the party and prolly had a better time. Dont worry i know its tough but ya gotta understand it too. Well i say just kinda ask her/him about it and she what she says. Hope i helped
Ash
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maybe you should go out with some people like to a movie...or go bowling...or even take along bath..im sorry about not gettin invited...u seem sweet..im sure she was just trying To get popular..and wanted to invite them instead of YOU
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yeah i feel you. someone once invited all my friends (they dont even talk to her)and didnt invite me..(not like i talk to her either lol)
But what i would do is to hang out with friends you have but you dont usually hang out with. It will keep you busy and it will be a lot of fun! After you hang out with them maybe you'll start hnagin out with them more! Do your thing..dont sit home!
-melissa
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Just don't worry about her go on with your life and if she is a real friend then she will ask you if anything happened to you and why your not talking with her. And at that point you can tell her all about your feelings with her not inviting you to her party. And she will probably understand and you guys will just forget bout her party and move on. hope that works! if you have nything else to ask my my username is xxmizzpreciousxx and browse for that columnist.
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Get her a reallllly great gift. I mean, something she'll realllly like. Don't even go to her party, just give it to her at school or drop it off at her doorstep. Jealousy sucks. I would know. Just give her the gift and maybe you should ask her why she didn't invite you.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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You should plan a party for next weekend and make it ten times better than hers then invite people except her.
Or.......
Go to Bored.com and find something else to do I like the featured games especially.
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You can Get her a really great gift and bring it over to her and if she does not invite you in then you can go back home wait until she opens it then when she sees how great it is she will probally call and tell you to come on over to her party!
P.S I think she is not ur friend anymore though if she invited ur friends and not you to make you mad
-Videogamegirl-
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That really is unfair of her to do that to you, and you have every right to feel jealous and hurt. Just how good a friend is she, anyway? There are many things you can do. Go to a movie, go to the mall (teenagers seem to thrive on the mall these days -- am I showing my age?), that sort of thing. You can wait until Monday and try to talk with her and let her know how you felt about being left out, but try to do it without accusing her and putting her on the defensive. How about this way? Do it good by giving her a birthday card on Monday and start the conversation with "I couldn't give it to Friday because I wasn't invited to your party, so here it is now. By the way, is there any reason why I wasn't invited? That sorta hurt." It might work. You never know. Hope I helped.
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Thats not really fare on you if she invited other friends with are just not as close as you are to her, when you go back to school talk to her about it and tell her you feel left out because what she's doing is not right roxie xxxx
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that is really horrible! she don't seem like that good a mate if she can treat you like that and u can do better!
If u wanna feal better put a dvd on, get sum munchies and snuggle down in bed. then tomorrow ring some mates, arrange something like shopping or cinema and then get one to stay over yours. it will be fun and will take your mind off that other girl.
Dont be jealous because who needs a friend like that bc she will only do it 2 them in the future.
hoped i've helped u. Gd luk!
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