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My friends popular friends don't like me much, so they told her I said I didn't like her. She believed it and now won't talk to me and I was supposed to go to a dance tonight but now am all depressed in my room. Also she's my one and only best friend. What should I do?
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If she believed them on the spot and did not even give you a chance to explain, then she is not really your friend. However, if you are really worried about it and shes that close to you then you should try to talk to her. Let her blow off some steam and then try to explain everything. Hope I helped.
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You should call her, email her, write her a note, or tell her in person that it wasn't true. You should say "Who do your trust more, me or your other friends?" Hope I helped! --Kylie
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that was such a mean thing to do. i really don't get popular peeps b/c they're really horrible to get popular and when they r popular they carry on and think peeps like them for it. its more of the case 'i say i like you so you don't smash my face in.' i'd rather be the biggest freak in the year than one of them or one of their 'm8z'.
this actually happened to me but it is your friends decision. u wont be able to stop her and if she believes them over you she aint that good a friend anyway. shes not gonna be that happy with them anyway. jus let her hang out with them and get yourself a new best friend. they'll upset your other friend or she'll get really jealous and cum bak but if she dont, dont stress becus you'll hav a new best mate anyway and you'll probably b glad this has happened. meet sum new peeps so if it does happen you can jus keep going and nt show her you are down!
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I see yur point! i have friends like that...what i do is not talk to them back and wait to have them come up to u...they are not talking to u so dont talk to them unless they come up to u and say stuff like sorry or whatever...i waited for like 3 days without my best friend talking to me and then she came up to me and said she was sorry. Well hope i helped x3 ash*
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hey if they are going to believe them and not you then she isnt a good friend but just try to talk to her if she is your true friend and helps you she should be able to trust you of what you said and not what other people said to make you mad. i really hope i helped people do this to people all the time so i hope you feel better and i hope your friend doesnt stay mad at you for something you didnt say.
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One, that doesn't sound like a best friend if she's taking the "popular" girls sides over her best. You should just tell her how it is, if she can't accpet that, then it'd be her loss. I mean I know if ya'll were to not become friends that'd be a hard thing to do. But there's ALWAYS people out there who would be willing to be your friend. You can do better if she refuses to even listen to what you have to say. I really hope ya'll work things out, good luck!!
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I don't think she is really you're "one and only best friend" if she didn't sit down to talk w/ you about what she heard. Also, not to dis her or anything, but it's really stupid to believe hearsay. And there's nothing special about "popular" people. If she'd blow you off to go hang-out w/ them, you don't need her. You're better off alone. = You can always iM me if you need to talk. I'm a great listener. =) AIM = x0thebeautifulme.
..xo* Jess
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you need to tell her that you never said anything like that, call her, email her, go to her house, talk to her and tell her that youd never do that and ask her if she thinks youd say anything like that ever, you need to get her to listen and tell her that their liying
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