hey .. im 14 years old and i need some advice. theres this guy who ive known for the longest time and he lives in my neghiborhood. over the last year we started becoming closer but its been hard because most of my friends hate him. ive always thought that i had feelings for him but ive tried to ignore them. we dont really hang out that much but we do sometimes .. one day over the summer we went for a walk and wound up hooking up and i realized that i did like him alott. the next day we hooked up again but we decided to keep it between us so we wouldnt have to worry about my friends being mad. he still comes up to me in school and gives me a hug and a kiss but he does that with alotta girls n we act like nothing ever happened.i cant get over him and i thought that we would just stay friend from now on but then like a week ago we hung out. we hooked up again and he said he wanted to do it agian .. i dont know if were going to be like friends with benefits or somthing but i think that theres more to it becuse a few months ago we almost went out. i dont know if i should talk to him and see who he likes or if i should just leave things how they are because i like being able to chill with him. its hard because i have to see him everyday with other girls but i dont know if i could go out with him because my friends cant stand him. i dont know what to do .. what do you think?
lildiamyn_69 answered Friday January 21 2005, 11:59 pm: hmmm.. tough one.
from what i understand, i think you guys should just stay friends, because you MIGHT not be able to handle him and the flirting w/girls.
And if your friends don't like him, they must not for a good reason. Hope I helped any. [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
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