What i wonder is why.....i do everything i am asked to do, if i do one thing remotely wrong, im bitched at for several days. Why does she single me out....It cant be because im the oldest, my brother doesn't do anything and he is such a little pecker....So what the hell did i do to piss her off....NOTHING. But i still get bitched at, why do you think this is....its really pissing me off
Avocodo answered Thursday January 20 2005, 9:27 pm: Yeah some parents are pretty screwd up, but it wont last forever. just like your pissed off she is, and even if shes bitching at you all day there is always a next. everyone has problems and even if it seems it will last forever itll get better. your parents act the same as we do when we get angry, and we have to remember that. i hope you mom treats you better. [ Avocodo's advice column | Ask Avocodo A Question ]
Sp0iLeD_SheDeViL answered Thursday January 20 2005, 8:00 pm: I'm the oldest in my family too, so i know where your coming from.Parents always want to believe their youngest is a little angel, but that doesnt mean she doesn't love you.It may also be because she's stressed out with your little brother.
TheChosenOne answered Thursday January 20 2005, 4:53 pm: Well I don't know man. I mean it could be bipolar disorder or something. It's been known to cause that. It might be how you act but I doubt it. Just ask her about it. [ TheChosenOne's advice column | Ask TheChosenOne A Question ]
jeanine answered Thursday January 20 2005, 4:24 pm: haha... well if it makes you feel any better my mom's a bitch too. she's a bitch all day, a bitch all night, a bitch all week, a bitch all month, a bitch all year... i got used to it [ jeanine's advice column | Ask jeanine A Question ]
BeautifulMadness answered Thursday January 20 2005, 4:06 pm: I'm just wondering...are your parents divorced? It's just that mine are and my mother did much the same thing for a long time (still does) because she was so bitter about the divorce and blamed me for it simply because there is no-one else there.
Anyway, whether your rents are divorced or not, if your brother is younger, she probably feels like she can't blame him for anything that's going on because it would be like picking on the 'baby' (no matter what the age, the youngest is always seen as the baby). So, the only person left to blame is you...it's mean that she takes it out on you though. I don't think she could be just picking on you for the sake of it...is she having a bad time at the moment or something?
Either way, I'd talk to her and ask why she's being so unfair.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx [ BeautifulMadness's advice column | Ask BeautifulMadness A Question ]
MummuM answered Thursday January 20 2005, 3:28 pm: That seems unfair. She's taking everything out on you, when you shouldn't even be bitched at. If you can, try talking to her about it. Make her realize that your not doing anything wrong and she's bitching at you for nothing. Maybe something is bothering her lately, that's why she's taking her anger out on you (which isn't right..) Just try talking to her and maybe try getting out of her whatever is bothering her (if something is). Best of luck!
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
jodie_272 answered Thursday January 20 2005, 3:01 pm: ur moms probably just stressed and she probably needs to let out sometimes. ur a girl so she probably feels that you will just listen to her problem like she would for you. explain to her that its getting you down but say that she can have bitchin sessions with you occasionally. me and my mom hav times wen we both hav a little moan about things to each other. if you need anymore help just say! [ jodie_272's advice column | Ask jodie_272 A Question ]
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