Question Posted Wednesday January 19 2005, 9:53 am
Im 13 years old. A lot of the other girls have boy friends and all but ofcourse i dont. ive never even had a first kiss or went on a date with a boy. Its not like im ugly because im not really. i just dont know...it just feels like that time is never going to come??..
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday January 20 2005, 1:16 am: Your only 13 give it time and going on dates? I wouldnt worry with that to much I didnt really start until i was 14. And A date isnt really a date until the guy picks u up. Otherwords.. i havent been on one yet just be greatful you dont have to go thru the pain of loving!-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
uacctk14 answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 6:11 pm: ok your still little i haven't had a first kiss, a bf and i'm still fine i'm in 8th grsde and 14 and no ones asked me out so don't worry about it when time comes you'll know it and don't rush into things like having a bf because your friends have one ;you different and you should meet someone special to share that first kiss with....good luck!!!!! [ uacctk14's advice column | Ask uacctk14 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 5:45 pm: Hey, honey, I felt like that too at your age. 6-about the end of 8th grade, I wasn't ugly, but no guys liked me. As soon as I hit ninth grade (turned 14, by the way, in october while I was in 9th grade) I had guys...hitting on me...lol. I didn't know what to do with it. Your time WILL come. Trust me, if it came for me, it'll come for you. I got my first kiss when I was fourteen. *Shrug* I have a friend who's 17 and still hasn't had her first kiss, and I think a guy friend or two who haven't had their first kiss, and one of them is a junior in high school. Don't worry about not having been kissed yet. Your time WILL come. 13 is young! You have YEARS. Trust me. Don't rush into anything, savor your youngness. Lol. I hope this helps!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
hotchik359359 answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 5:36 pm: your 13? Then why are you worrying about boyfriends? And if your worried you haven't kissed a boy? RElAX, lots of peolple don't have boyfriends till their at least 16. That gives you 3 years to hook up with someone! And if you rush into a relationship with someone you dont really like then whats the point? [ hotchik359359's advice column | Ask hotchik359359 A Question ]
Carrie1579 answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 4:18 pm: I didn't have my first until I was 15!! I felt so behind everybody... but I talked to a lotta people once I was in high school and there were a LOT more people who still hadn't had their first kiss... I'm 16 now and a lot of the people my age still haven't. So really it may SEEM like you're the only one... but you're really not.. it'll happen eventually. I never thought it would for me either and it did. Just hang in there you're not alone and you're still 2 years younger than when it happened to me. :)
Hope I helped
-Carrie [ Carrie1579's advice column | Ask Carrie1579 A Question ]
brilliantadvice72 answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 2:36 pm: you just need to let lose and ask a boy out yourself the boys are just scared to ask because they prbely think you will say no and they will be embaressed so you ask a boy to go out they don't need to ask you you need to ask them. [ brilliantadvice72's advice column | Ask brilliantadvice72 A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 1:46 pm: wow um i had that same problem when i was your age.. well your time will come sooner or later..and dont worry bout guys they trouble anyways enjoy life with out a boyfriend til you get one..plus your real young so you shouldnt worry bout it..jus cause your a teenager dont mean all the sudden you need a boyfriend too.. and dont mind dem other girls...~*DEZ*~ [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
hollaren answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 1:07 pm: i feel so bad for you i know the feeling i was there at your age but i'm 19 now and i've boyfriends, well hell i'm not a virgin anymore for it started when i was 15 and i got my first boyfriend. just relax it'll come when you least expect it be patient your young. [ hollaren's advice column | Ask hollaren A Question ]
xSammieXlubsXux answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 12:24 pm: Just keep being patient. Maybe, your guy will come around sooner than you think. I kno that you think that your time will never come but it will. MAN, this is like that movie "NEVER BEEN KISSED," with Drew Barrymore(dont remember how to spell her last name) in it. Just keep the thought in the back of your mind that your time will come. Who know's? You might end up with a better boyfriend than your friends have. LOL! no affense to your friends.
xO_Natalie_Ox answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 11:57 am: It will I think it's better to wait to be with someone you really like. Don't just go out in depseration becuase it's really not fair to you or the other person. It will come though sooner or later I mean you can't die not being kissed yet I've never heard of that. [ xO_Natalie_Ox's advice column | Ask xO_Natalie_Ox A Question ]
TheChosenOne answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 10:23 am: Well if you don't think it'll come then make it come! Don't sit on your ass and just wait for it. How far are you going to get doing that? What you need to do is meet guys and talk to them awhile and sooner or later you'll get a guy. You see you can't really expect for you to just sit there and wait for it. That ain't gonna happen. Hope I helped. [ TheChosenOne's advice column | Ask TheChosenOne A Question ]
hottdancer134 answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 10:18 am: don't beat yourself down like that! i'm 13( i'll be 14 in 2 months though) and i know EXACTLY how you feel! i've had b/f's b4, but never made out w/ them which makes me kind of un e-z cuz all my friends have! n-e way, just wait and eventually Mr. Right will come to you! Hope this helps!
jbdreamer answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 10:16 am: Your only 13! You have plenty of time. Relationships at your age don't mean anything anyway, it's just a title. Don't stress you have many years of dating ahead of you. [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
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