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where can i meet a nice girl? and how?
if you have read the previous post, you'd know how pathethic my love life is (20m never had gf). Anyway, where can i meet a nice girl? And how do i get to know her?
(any nice girl out there?)
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I know that finding your soulmate is a frustrating task. Believe me...I _know_ :P
What do you like to do? For example, if you like to read, try joining a book club. Then you will have the opportunity to meet more girls who share your interests. Whatever activity you enjoy, there is sure to be some club or community dedicated to it. So figure out what your interests are and get involved.
I would also suggest trying to involve yourself in groups that are small and meet regularly. I'm shy too, and I tend to be more comfortable talking to people that I see on a regular basis. I also feel more comfortable in small groups because the less people, the better my chances of getting noticed. The more crowded, the more I seem to get ignored.
How do you get to know a girl? First, take it slow. You don't need to actually ask out a girl to get to know her. (And not having to ask her out will take a lot of the pressure off of you.) Introduce yourself. Ask her a lot of questions. Where is she from? What does she do? What are her hobbies? Chances are that once you've talked to a girl several times, you'll feel more comfortable around her and asking her out won't seem like such a monumental task.
And yes, there is always the internet. You could go to eharmony.com. They have a very comprehensve personality test, so your chances of meeting someone compatible with you is greater. I think that the internet is great for the socially challenged. You get to talk to people without having to deal with the pressure of looking them in the eye. And once you do meet them, you'll feel more comfortable because, in a way, you all ready know that person.
Nice girls are out there. (I happen to be one.) The problem is that we don't usually advertise :P We usually don't go to the typical singles hang-outs. You won't catch us in a bar or club very often. You have to look for us where we go. But don't give up. We want you to find us.
Best of luck ;)
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aww thats really sad. wat ill say is that i lik guys who act themselve and i lik guys and dont act all perveish and i lik guys who treat my good. maybe u should try that it will help and if it doesnt then maybe ur tryin for the wrong girls
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You may want to stop focusing on the looking and more on letting her find you. The most beautiful things in life are serindipity. Plus when you finally find her, you dont want to be too wrapped up in looking around to realize it. she could be right under your nose. live your life as best you can and love will work itself in.
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well... concidering there aren't that many nice people out there, this is going to be harder than you can imagine. First, you have to be a nice person to get a nice girl. Secondly, just be your self and mrs. perfect will find you. Thirdly, being a gentleman always help. Open doors, pick up book, pen, ect. if they drop it. This should work. Hope you find a nice girl.
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We're all nice girls!! When you stop lookin for love, that's when it stops hiding. There's a sayin that says somethin bout love bein around every corner, and no you're not walkin in circles...You're just lookin to hard. You're not pathetic, you just want to be in love really, and there's nothin wrong with that! There's a nice girl out there for you, there's a special someone for everybody, and she'll show up when you least expect it. Just loosin up, and be yourself. Good Luck!! Much Love!
XoXo
Jessie
P.S. Try Victoria's Secret...lol
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Go to the mall or something and just talk to girls. Girls like confident guys so just go talk to some of them. Some might blow you off because they are bitches. Um got to a love site or whatever they are called. match.com? Meet some new people and maybe they have some friends. Good luck.
<3 Brit
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Haha. One thing, you don't /look/ for a girlfriend. Then you'll be looking for specific things, and that won't help at all. Just make friends with someone at work or one of your friends friends that you don't happen to know yet. o.O Or you could try the whole 'bump into random pretty girla dn help pick up things then say "Wow, I love [insert author eg Adgar Alaan Poe :P]." then date etc.' thing, but uhh.... just try the friends thing first ^^ <3 EJ
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You have to go up and talk to girls in order for them to notice you.
School is probably a good place to meet girls or at work.Anyplace nice girls hang out.Church,also through friends maybe.
Keep looking.There is one waiting for you to discover her somewhere out there.
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Well im a nice grl and never had a bf yet... lol but im to young for you so dont think about it lol. But um... try a park or the mall.. basically where grls hang out. Usually the shy, maybe even clumbsy ones are sweet. The gilrs that try to make a good impression but mess up are also very nice... gosh this resembles like all my frinds haha. But yet thats all i've got.
Good Luck!
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What I would do to meet a guy is go to the places you like to go to. Obviously if you meet a girl in a place that you like then you both have something in common. And then you can get along better and have common interests. Like for example if you like reading then go to a library in the book section you like. Then talk to a girl that u see interest in and MAKE SURE SHE DOESNT HAVE A RING ON HER LEFT RING FINGER and talk to her. About a book, interest you can go anywhere and do that. Hope I help and good luck
*Kristen
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There are nice girl's everywhere, you just have to give one a chance. I know some girls are low and just want a guy because they are "hot" and such, but them are the wrong ones to be looking for. If you want a nice girl, you have to look around, hard. It'll take time, but I'm sure you'll find her. Try going to club's, parties, the park. Maybe your friends can hook you up on a couple of blind dates. Your dream girl could be right in front of your eyes, but you just don't know it. If you have any close friends, get to know them better. Hangout with them, go to the mall, the movies, chat on the phone, etc. Either way, finding the "right girl" is going to take time. But believe me you'll find her. You are only 20. No need to be tied down just yet hun.
♥ Krissy
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umm maybe try like a bar or the mall, or get a job where alot of girls buy things and be very very nice and polite every day =)
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Dear where,
The first sentence of your question is what I believe to be the problem. You call your love life pathetic. Got any confidence much? Nice girls are everywhere. Positively everywhere. Do you have any girls who are friends whom you could talk to openly about this? They may be able to give you some insight. However, before you talk to them, prepare yourself with an open mind. A REALLY open mind. And then try this...smile, be friendly. When you have an opportunity to talk to a girl, start out small. How long have you lived around here? What do you like to do? Seen any good movies lately? Eventually, you will click with someone. Don't push, don't begin with stuff like inside jokes, that only you get, find out more about her and then if you feel as if you want to get to know her better, let her get to know you. Take some classes at your local college. That's always a great way to meet people. Also, don't ignore your guy friends. Some of those friends may know girls that you can get closer to through them. Branching out is the key. Good luck!
Linda
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Nice girls are where nice things are going on. This includes church, people who volunteer,clubs, and hobbies. And a lot of these things are free. Especially book clubs. So grab a paper or call around and go find them.
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