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I've liked this guy for like, seriously, a REALLY long time, I mean we've been friends for longer than I can remember. A couple years ago my cousin was visiting from another state and I was takin her to hang out w. me and a few of my friends (including the guy i like). Now let me get this straight, I told her how much I liked him and how much he meant to me. Well, they meet each other and they decide that hey they like each other, so they start to go out (yea long distance n everything) and i'm like seriously, devastated, you don't understand how much i care for this guy. They broke up after awhile but i have never really been the same w. my cousin since. about a year after that happened, my guy started liking me, and he told me and so we dated for a few weeks and did some stuff n my cousin got soo pissed at me, and i think that i have a right to do what i please, considering she did like, almost hte exact same to me! even though i wasn't doing it to piss her off, i did it cause i really really like this boy. Well, me and my boy still talk alot, and he says that in a few years (i'm 14, he's 15) he thinks that we should get together again, but he doesnt want to right now, and i understand that. My cousins coming into town this weekend. I have plans to see a movie w. my guy and a bunch of my other firends and my mom told me i have to take my cousin, n i'm soo afraid that she and him will start likin each other again. what do i do.!??!
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Tell your mom whats going on, and also, go up to your cousin and say, "you know what, get over it, you did the exact same thing to me, so don't even try to say that you were treated unfairly, I was, me me me, so you deserved it, you knew that I liked this guy, and you go and take him from me." Your cousin is horrible for doing this, tell your mom about this, or just forget that guy, he just sounds like a guy who moves on from girl to girl in days and weeks, your cousin really betrayed you, and a adult needs to know this.
-TheTeenGirl
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kill your cousin, lol just kidding i would say dont give that backstabing cousin of yours a chance to be with the guy, be with him the whole time, but dont be there to long and to obiuos that you become annoying lol just play it cool good luck.
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Well first off if your cousin knew EXACTLY how you felt about this guy she shouldn't of done that and considering the fact she did shes very rude and what s he did was WRONG.. and things will NEVER EVER be the same between ya'll for along time... i have had that happen to me befire and i have seen it happen with tons of friends.. but just keep being strong and make sure this guy knows EXACTLy how yyou feel about him and all you can do is fight for what you want and if you dont get what you want in the end at least you can say you tried your hardest and you should be proud of yourself for trying and not giving up till there was nothing else left to do..
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Seriously, i understand where you are comin from, either you need to end this completely or keep it goin strong. If you get back together later on its gonna just be lost of breakin up and gettin back together...and that's not fun (believe me). If this guy is gettin in the way of you and your cousins relationship then you need to stay friends and even make a pact with your cousin that she will not go out with him either. He's actin desperate right now and you don't want a guy like that. Sometimes you just gotta do whats right. But, what your cousin did was really shallow in takin the guy that you told her a million times you liked but family is family. Good luck
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Ok first of all! OMFG CHICK! If you really liked this dude and then your cousin went and went out with him, then she should be banned from your family tree! Because that is not what family is for! Also, what the heck is this?! You and your guy went out, broke up and then you two might get back in the future!? No, no way! You stay together now or like end it completly! I had to do the same with my ex - boyfriend and we're still friends! But no, stay now together or no! Because soon it's going to turn out to be break up, after break up, after break up! Plus, if you have to take your cousin along with you and your friends, then good luck, because if they start liking each other then you should forget the dude and stay friends. Because soon he's going to want you back and you're going to be "eh?" and like that just shows he's like deprate and like a player and a man slut! No offense. Just stay friends, if nothing happens with him and your cousin, go ahead and like him, and see what happens, but if you two brea up and brea up then like forget him and move on.
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I think you need to hang all over him and don't let her get a word in there that you don't hear!
Make it known right up front who belongs to whom.I might even let the guy in on it so he isn't totally shocked by your behavior.Ask him and see what he says.
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You had every right to do what you did. Explain the situation to your mom, say you don't feel comfortable takin your cousin along. It might be a lil wierd telling your mom that you don't want your cousin to go cuz it might jeopardize the friendship/relationship with this guy, but believe me, it'll be worth it if this is truly what you say it is! Just talk to her, and leave her cousin at home to bake cookies with your mom! :) And go have a great time! Hope everything works out for the best! Have Fun!! Much Love!!!
XoXo
Jessie
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i dont think your cousin has a right to be mad i mean she had her chance and plus she went out with him knowing you liked him. i think you should talk to your mom about this one. hope i helped **tink**
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You cousin shouldn't be mad at you at all. She did the samething to you as you did to her. Friends aren't suppose to get with the person you like, that's just wrong. Especially when you told her you liked this guy. You really need to talk to your cousin about this and tell her everything. Explain to her that you hate when she takes the guys you like. Since your going to the movies with her and a bunch of other friends. I think you should set her up with a guy to go to the movies with. This way, she'll be with him and won't be able to be with the guy you like.
♥ Krissy
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Wow tell your mom your situation. I totally agree with you on this one. Your cousin has no right to be mad because you told her that you liked this guy first and she still went out with him.
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