I just want to know what are some things you can say to a girl to charm her and make her like you. Such what are some things i could say to the girl i like to just slowly make her like me. Are there anythings that girls like to hear that charms them. Thanks any help is pretty much appreciated
kriddle06 answered Thursday March 17 2005, 11:46 am: some things to make a girl like you is to tell her things that you would make her happy and make her feel nice about her self hope this helps
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TheTeenGirl answered Thursday March 17 2005, 2:53 am: Well, lots of girls have different opinions on what they like from a guy, and lots like it when you say that they are beautiful, but I honestly think this should be said to a girlfriend, if I were friends with a guy, and he told me I was beautiful and things like that, the first thought in my mind would be, "cheap, and cheesy." Which is considered bad to me, I don't like a guy who kisses up to me by calling me sweet names, its obvious that they just want you to be something more to them, and they sound weird and feminine, I just want a guy to talk to me about things and to be himself, but I think talking is better, instead of obvious meaningless names that I wouldn't like.
karenR answered Thursday March 17 2005, 12:29 am: Be yourself.Be nice and polite.Compliment them on occassion (You look pretty with your hair done that way etc.).Don't stop once you snag yourself one either! You know, once you have one, A single rose is pretty cheap and works wonders!Good luck:} [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
hopelessnlove answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 6:05 pm: just be nice to the gurl....dont give her too much attention, us girls always want wat we cant have, but dont ignore her either...then she gives up on you. Be flirty and sweet, give her hugs wen you see her...just talk to her..be yourself...slowly become freinds...eventually ask her for her number...call her not too much...girls get turned off by that...but once you got her....give her all you got...tell her how much she means to you..u no the drill. [ hopelessnlove's advice column | Ask hopelessnlove A Question ]
tilt_ya_head_back_502 answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 4:58 pm: i always like when a guy tells me i look nice or pretty that day or if they like my shirt or whatever... but it turns me away when as guy says ur hot or they have their friend say you wanna talkt o them bc then he just sounds like a loser and just talk to her and smile at her but dont be too aggresive bc that just turns girls away,or atleast me.... just be nice and talk to her and compliment her, and never hurts to say hi to her in the hallway(if ur in school) occasionally...
some_girl answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 3:45 pm: Girls are always scared that you don't like them. At least I am, if I start to fall for a guy, I want to know that he likes me too. So, show it. Make eye contact, smile at her, let her catch you looking at her while shes looking away, then pretend you weren't doing it. If you sit next to her, sit close, and try to keep a steady conversation going. Be outgoing, but don't scare her away.
Lastly, if she clearly isn't into you, back off. Theres more of a chance of her eventually falling for her on her own then you trying to pressure her. It makes us uncomfortable, and uneasy. Good luck
~some girl [ some_girl's advice column | Ask some_girl A Question ]
Sp0iLeD_SheDeViL answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 3:44 pm: When you see her compliment her about something.If you like the top she's wearing say "that top looks really good on you" or tell her she looks pretty today.But don't go overboard because it might make you look kinda stalkerish.Just take it slow and give nice sweet compliments and remember a girl doesn't want to hear that she's hot, she wants to hear that she's beautiful:-)
sweet_apples answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 2:33 pm: well sweet talk gets me but mostly the little things you know dont make her feel pressured try to make her feel safe and it seems to me that your have no problem write me back and put it in sweet apples inbox [ sweet_apples's advice column | Ask sweet_apples A Question ]
cinderellaxo answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 1:36 pm: well since i am a girl...girls like it when u call her sweet and special! and say like u missed her when she was gone...but mostly become her friend before trying to "make a move" girls need a friend! [ cinderellaxo's advice column | Ask cinderellaxo A Question ]
specialchick913 answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 12:51 pm: you cant really make someone like you, but as far as things to do:
1) be yourself
2) smile at her alot
3) give her alot of compliments
4) be really nice to her
5) give her a good time
.. sorry its not much but i hope it helped! [ specialchick913's advice column | Ask specialchick913 A Question ]
lovebug26 answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 12:05 pm: You can't really make someone like you but there are a few things I would do. Be a gentleman, girls love that...hold doors, wait for her...little things like that. Also Most girls like talking on the phone especially when a guy says they are going to call and then call at that time. You could also just comment on her outfit, hair, makeup. Guys don't realize it but the reason we spend all that extra time in the bathroom is to look good for them. When a guy notices something we have done it always puts a smile on our face. Good luck...I hope I helped a little bit. [ lovebug26's advice column | Ask lovebug26 A Question ]
hailebop answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 9:52 am: Well, there is no guaranteed way to make somebody fall for you, but as a general rule: be yourself, be friendly, smile, pay her attention and be sincere in any compliments. Not all women like over the top romance, but everyone likes to feel special, appreciated and interesting. If you talk to her, listen to what she says and make her laugh, you will be doing well. Look at her face and in to her eyes when you are talking to her. Don't fiddle with things you are holding or keep glancing around the room - these are natural things to do if you are nervous, but won't give the best impression of yourself. Yes, compliment her, but be sincere. Don't just churn out something cheesy about her eyes or how she looks nice - pick something about her that you find particuarly attractive - her hair, the freckles on her nose, her outfit - it doesn't matter, as long as it's honest and from *you*, not just a rehearsed compliment. If it's honest and genuine, it'll feel much better and she is more like to pick up on that and respond. Overall however, just be yourself and have the confidence to go up to her and talk to her and show her who you are and that you are interested in her. [ hailebop's advice column | Ask hailebop A Question ]
therocketsummer answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 7:00 am: Well! there's nothing specific you could say to make her fall head over heels for you.. right away. But you can charm her.
- I like "You're beautifuls" and "I miss yous"
- you can compliment her on her clothes, smile, eyes, anything because with girls it doesn't matter what it is, it just matters your getting a compliment.
-try to refein from calling her HOT to her face because it makes us feel small and degraded [ therocketsummer's advice column | Ask therocketsummer A Question ]
EJ47 answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 6:58 am: Haha. One main thing. Tell them they are pretty, but don't do that every 5 minutes or that will lose it's touch O.o Go figure. Joke around a bit. Funny is good :P <3 EJ (sorry for shortie!) [ EJ47's advice column | Ask EJ47 A Question ]
Drama_Secretary answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 1:48 am: Well, if you get them alone. I like it when a guy compliments me on like my eyes or something like that. I also like it when guy's compliment me on my personality (ex. You're so nice, funny, etc.). I had this one guy one time tell me I was worth more than a million dollars. It was kind of an inside joke, but I totally fell for him because of it. You could also play off her interests. Find out what she finds funny and tell jokes or showing off sometimes make girls notice you. I don't much about the girl, but those things should work if you know her pretty well. [ Drama_Secretary's advice column | Ask Drama_Secretary A Question ]
SxyLilPoo47 answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 1:44 am: Well,
Since I'm a girl I'm gonna tell you how I liek boys to approach me. I like for a boy to be straight up like if he like me i want him to tell me not his friend.I like when they say ay shawty can i talk to u for a second or DAMN! u got a fat ass.Although I dont go to the boys who say "DAMN YOU GOT A FAT ASS" because they approach me rudely but it just feels good to be complemented.
LindasCounsel answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 1:31 am: Hi! Hmmmm, things to charm a girl and make her like you. You said something in your second sentence that kinda sorta answered your own question. "slowly make her like me." The "slowly" is the key factor there. The best thing you can do is get her talking about herself. Us gals like to feel special, interesting, beautiful...but be careful. Don't pile it on too thick. I'll give you a little equation: HOPE + DOUBT = PASSION. You want to let her know that you like her, but in a very subtle way. You know how it seems as if girls always like the bad boys? Here's a secret. It's not so much the 'bad' in them, it's the 'challenge' of them. Here's where the doubt comes in. You have to leave a little room for a girl to seriously wonder whether or not you were flirting with her, or just being nice. That's why I said not to pile it on too thick. Smile, be friendly, ask about her interests, and show that you find her interesting and then back off a little. You will find them coming to you, trying to charm YOU instead. Good luck!
Linda [ LindasCounsel's advice column | Ask LindasCounsel A Question ]
ShYbl0nD3 answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 12:32 am: Well you could compliment her on the outfit she's wearing. Say 'hey!' and start a conversation while flirting. um... maybe help her out on somthing... depending on what she's doing. Eye contact is very important. Maybe even smile :) lol um... ask her if she wants to hang out somtime... there's lots of things that you could do. but those r the ones i know best.
Good Luck! [ ShYbl0nD3's advice column | Ask ShYbl0nD3 A Question ]
honeybunch answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 12:25 am: tell her you think she's beautiful. make her feel special. give her alot of attention. complement her on her sense of humor. tell her the little things you notice that you love about her. like maybe the way she laughs. complement her on her personality! make her feel important! [ honeybunch's advice column | Ask honeybunch A Question ]
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