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i like this guy alot. we went out last summer but broke up for a stupid reason. Well, my dad found out some stuff that me and him did, and told austin(my ex) not to talk to me again. So of course he hasn't. We see each other all the time and i miss him alot. He has a girlfriend, but i still want him back. A couple of weeks ago my friend asked him if he would ever go back out wtih me and he was like "umm .. i gotta get to class" so then the next day she asked again and he said "umm ... i got a girlfriend right now" ... he didnt say yes or no. But the other day when someone asked if he liked this other girl, he said no about her. nd there is one of his friends, B.j, and we all go to the same church. B.j likes me and i think i like him too. But not as much as i do austin. Well B.j was telling everyone he likes me adn taht i was hott and he wanted to go out with me, then he found out i didnt like him, so he got mad and said he didnt want to go out with me. Last ngiht at churhc, he wouldnt even talk to me. I am so confused. Ohh and about the austin thing, my dad told him to never talk to me again or look at me or even come near me, so when he sees me he avoids me, but he still looks at me alot. My dad told me yesterday i could start talkin to him again, but im too shy to. So my questions are .. What all should i do? and should i tell both of them i like them or not? and do you think austin still likes me? any help is welcome!!!! (link)
i think he still likes you but doesnt talk to you because of what your dad said. Now that your dad is letting you talk to him, just go up and start a conversation with him. i know it sounds hard, but you can do it! If he avoids you after yall start talkin, then i would try to get over him. But im sure he wont because of yalls past realtions. About the bj thing, if you and ausitn doesnt work out, then give bj a try, but if you and austin start getting close again, tell bj you just want to be good friends. I know all this seems hard to do because your shy adn all, but just put the shyness behind you and do it!! i mean .. if you really want things to happen with you and austin again, then you would talk to him!! hope this helped. Let me know how thigns go!!


I know having bulimia,anorixia or anything like that isnt pleasing to God...but is it considered a sin? (link)
i dont think it is a sin, but you are causing damage to your body. So i would say eat because thats really unhealthy! hope i helped


Ok so here is the deal i know that i am supposed to be a good freind and all my friends say i am a good freind. But latley my friend who is a 14/male has been trying to act well cool he is drinking and i dunno if that is such a ood idea seeing as he is trying to get me to do it i know that i used to be an alcholic but i have stopped because my other friend who is a 14. female told me to so i did. But that is not the real deal. My friend has also begun to overdose and talk about suicide i have talked to people about it yet when i try to talk to him i am to afraid to tell him to stop i know i need to and i know i just would rather have him be mad at me yet he knows me o to well and will put up a fight.

Do i dare try to talk to him because he is violant or should i leave that to a parental unit???

thnx
Monn (link)
i think that you should talk to him! you are one of his good friends so he will probly listen to you. Tell him that you used to be in he same situation but you knew it was wrong, so you stopped doing all that. Tell him that you can help him get through it and it will be ok. Hope i helped. lemme know how tings go.


hey every1
k well i went out with this guy last year, his name is ben. then we broke up over the summer but now for like a month i have liked him again and i found out that he likes me too cause he asked me out tonight online, but as soon as he asked me out and i said yeah he had to go football. im worried that tomorrow at school it will be akward and i really don't want it to be akward cause we have been like really good friends like forever. please tell me good ways to flirt with him tomorrow so it isn't akward! thanks so much I RATE WELL! (link)
since yall were already good friends, just act like you normally do. Except since yall go out, hold his hand alot. But dont talk about any guys or anyhting anymore! haha. Well i know it not alot but i hope i helped


If god knows that we are gonna do something bad, like look up porn, why doesnt he try and stop us. I dont really understand it but, i am a porn addict and its getting harder and harder for me to stop. why would god let me do it if he knows its wrong? (link)
when god died for us, we got this thing called free will. God wants us to do right, but there is always that stupid devil that tries to pull you to doing bad. So i think its the devil pulling you to watch the porn. So just pray to god that he will help you and then try not to go tothe site as much, and soon you will not be on there at all! hope i helped.


I just want to know what are some things you can say to a girl to charm her and make her like you. Such what are some things i could say to the girl i like to just slowly make her like me. Are there anythings that girls like to hear that charms them. Thanks any help is pretty much appreciated (link)
you cant really make someone like you, but as far as things to do:
1) be yourself
2) smile at her alot
3) give her alot of compliments
4) be really nice to her
5) give her a good time
.. sorry its not much but i hope it helped!


As a seventeen year old female who is oober tired of stupid highschool guys and would like to move on to more mature ones... how old is too old for me? (link)
your so right! high school guys are so immature and think tehy are the best, but their not! haha. Well i think that somewhere around 20 is enough. Dont go too far over that. hope this helepd.


The guy who I've really liked for over a year said that he kind of likes me. What does it mean if he kind of likes me? My friend who is friends with him thinks that since he's shy, he said that he kind of likes me because he was too shy to say yes. This other guy who I talked to who doesn't even know the guy I like said that he thinks it means that the guy I like thinks I'm hot and has a little crush on me, but isn't really like in love with me. What do you think it means if he kind of likes me? (link)
ok .. most guys are nto shy to say who they like unless they have a girlfriend but likes another girl. So does he have a girlfriend? so i think that he wants to be good friends for now. He is starting to like you a little, but nothing major YET. but start getting really close adn flirt with him alot and see how things go in the next few weeks. If things still dont change, put it in my inbox and ill help you some more! hope i helped!!


Me and my best friend used to be so clost and now we are slowing drifting apart...we both know it and the other day she sent me an email saying that we weren't as close. I don't want to drift away from her, we tell eachother mainly everything. We are both starting to hang out with two way different crowds too. How can we be as close as we used to?? ~Shelby~

p.s. yes katie this is me..lol (link)
i think you and her should spend more time together. go out on weekends to movies or pizza or just hang out around ur house and have fun! me and my friend are like that, but we are starting to hang out more and becoming close again! hope it helps you


Ok!
My friend always texts me on my phone! And we were on the phone w/ a boy the other nite! So yesterday i got this text from my friend saying that the boy we were talking to ( that i like ) said i was annoying! i was like no! She then texts me saying i was jk! I was like ooooo! SHe does it a lot and it is really annoying is it normal 4 me to be mad at her! cause she does it at least twice a day!

Taller (link)
that would annoy me too .. so i would confront her and tell her that it is annoying and that its not funny and ask her to stop doing it. hope this helped!




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