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I have these two friends one doesnt like the other and the other wants to be the other ones friend what should I tell both of them?
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You should tell them that they need to talk and try and work things out!Rate me ! ]
One tip.. leave it up to them.. this isn't much of your business and you'll end up getting cut somewhere between being the bearer of bad news and the messenger. If you really want to give the friend that is being rejected some advice tell them that not everyone will like you, and you don't have to be liked by them. You are still their friend. ]
I think you should arrange a day where it's free for all three of you and sit down and be a kind of judge and sort out all their problems. Ask one friend why she doesn't like the other and have them talk. It's guarenteed to work and make the better of your friendship and theirs too! Best of luck and hope for you too.
~~~Kayla~~~ ]
tell them to talk to each other. Ask them to talk about why one doesnt like the other one and why the one so bent on being friends with the other. ~roxy~ ]
well i would talk to the the one friend who doesnt like the other and find out why she hates her and then maybe convience her to be friends becuz the other girl wants to be or maybe have ur other friend talk to the girl who hates her and ask her why she hates her lol ... ♥ brytt ]
Well, there is a right way and a wrong way. The right way is to try to get them aqainted somehow. Maybe talk about things they both like or something. That usually works. ]
Well just let them know you arent going to choose over on because you like them both and you dont want to lose either a true friend wouldnt make you lose another friend. trust me!-trix ]
Tell your friend that doesn't like the other girl that your other friend is really nice. You have to target why she doesn't like her in the 1st place and work from there. The other girl who wants to be friends, have her write a nice note to the other girl and have her do something really nice, like bake cookies for her (I know, cheesy, but who doesn't like cookies?). She'll probably be caught off guard at her kindness and be nice back to her. That's just the way it works. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin ]
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