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moving
hey.. i'm getting all depressed because i have to move and transfer to a PRIVATE school and wear a really retarded uniform, but i have to ride the public kids school bus and i know right now theyr gunna make fun of me. i don't want to tell my parents how much it's bothering me because, first of all it isn't going to change anything, and it's like their "dream house" and everything. it's not just the bus part that bothers me though, i'm scared of moving because ive never moved before and i really don't want to leave my friends. please help xxox -jeanine
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Tell your paremts what you think. And tell them that if you have to move if they can drive you also wen you make new friends get a carpull
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aww -- i can TOTALLY relate! i know what you're going through babe, but trust me, its gonna all get better! if you say that talking to your rents won't help then i guess theirs nothing else you can do! trust me, once you get to the new school and stuff you'll meet TONS of new people and its a fresh new start. i mean, people dont know you so thats kind of good, too. im kind of in a hurry so I can't write for too long, but just all I can say is don't worry. Things will get better, you'll make friends soon and you'll be happy =) Get back to me and we can talk if you want. good luck & tell me how everyhting goes! Later babay! BTW how old are you?
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Oh hun, I'm really sorry you have to move. Try and look on the brightside of things though. Just think about all these new oppurtunities you're going to have! I honestly would love to go to a private school, but maybe that's just me. My friend moved to the city this year and goes to one. She has so many cool classes that she takes! Anyway, about missing your friends, it's ok to miss them, of course you will! But you hopefully can still see them from time to time and definitely still keep in touch. It'll be really hard at first, but you'll make new friends real soon. Uniforms: Don't even listen to these kids if they try to start something. Again, my friend, tells me how easy it is to get up in the morning and not worry about what to wear. And finally, talk to your parents about what you're feeling. Maybe they can ease your worries, and cheer you up a little. Hope I helped! And if you wanna talk IM me anytime. Good Luck!
~Lana
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I've gone through this before. 3 times in fact. Trust me you'll get over it. I got upset to leave my friends but I ended up meeting better one's where I live now. And as for the bus, you could ask your parents to drive you there or something. If not you can just tell you parents how you feel about it. They'll usually try to help you feel better.
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heyy... i know that moving is a BIG step in life... and i don't want to remind you about it again. Anyway, you have to exept what goes on in life. Eventhough your afraid to be made fun at, just don't be afraid of them, and find some new friends who will not make fun of you. And try to contact your old friends sometime and you can talk about all thats going on. Don't be that worried. You'll soon find out that moving is full of adventures and new experiences with new friends.
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Well, I don't exactly know how you're feeling, because I've never moved, but I'll try to help. First off, how do you know they're going to make fun of you? I'm sure that's not gonna happen, but I guess if it does, just IGNORE THEM. Because they would just be trying to get a reaction. If you don't give them one, they'll think what's the point and back off. I seriously think you should talk to your parents about it. Even though it's not gonna change anything, maybe they've moved a few times when they were kids and can tell you about their experiences. Or if they didn't, they can still offer good advice. They're your parents, they've been through more crap than you have. So they could actually help you. Second, ya moving is really hard. I can't imagine having to leave my friends. I'm really shy and having to make new friends scares the crap out of me, lol. So I sort of know how you feel, having to leave your friends and all. You just have to keep in touch with them. IM them, email them, write letters, or talk on the phone. And if you don't live TOO far apart, you can maybe visit each other halfway every now and then. For making new friends, you just have to make conversation. I don't know about where you're going, but at my school, when there's a new kid, everyone introduces themselves and is really nice. But if no one says anything to you, you have to make the first move. Just go up to someone if you get lost, and ask where to go, and you'll probably make a friend there. At lunch, sit with people you know from your classes. And it might take time, but you'll eventually make new friends. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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