I'm 14 and I broke up with my ex boyfriend 2 months ago, because we never talked or were able to see each other.Now that were broken up I see him more and more. We started hanging out. Well the other day he told me he still loved me and still wanted to be with me,but I didn't tell him it back because I didn't want to get hurt again.After that we started walkin with his friend and I had a stupid moment and kissed his friend (I've liked his friend for like ever),but I never stopped loving my ex.. Should I feel bad for what I did?
XxCuTiEzxX answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 3:29 pm: yeah u should feel bad but tell your ex straight up and if he gets mad tell him your feel horible of what u did! well hope my advice heped! [ XxCuTiEzxX's advice column | Ask XxCuTiEzxX A Question ]
the_haha_boat answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 12:58 pm: No, you were single at the molment. Its not like you cheated. He still likes you and you like him but you weren't going out yet. You need to figure out if you would get anything out of the two of you going out again. Sometimes its a lot better just hanging out and being friends even if you love eachother a lot. [ the_haha_boat's advice column | Ask the_haha_boat A Question ]
lilxxcrystalxxbv answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 12:10 pm: umm no not if you couldnt control yourself.... lol just figure out who you like more and if tha person u kissed says then why did u kiss me if you like him you could be like i wanted to see if you had soda yet that day..... lol i dunno!! lol thats funny!
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llgngstachic answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 2:08 am: never regret something that you did, it was what you wanted at the time.
so no, you shouldnt feel bad for what you did. it is yoru choice of who you kiss and dont kiss. [ llgngstachic's advice column | Ask llgngstachic A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 12:17 am: If your not going out with him and you didn't tell your ex that you still loved him too, then no!!
The_Big_Ticket911 answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 11:19 pm: You shouldn't feel to bad about it. I mean, u made a mistake. We all make mistakes. If i were u, i'd tell ur ex that u made a mistake kissing his friend and u still love him. If u think u are going to see him and talk to him more often and u want to go back out with him, u should ask him out. I hope I helped. Feel free to ask me more questions and i'll do my best to help. [ The_Big_Ticket911's advice column | Ask The_Big_Ticket911 A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 11:06 pm: did you kiss his friend in front of him? if so, then yeah you should feel bad. and if you still care about your ex, now that you guys are haning out more, maybe you should talk to him about giving it another try. he probably is hanging around you alot more now because he misses you. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
LiLPiNkfLiRts1230 answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 11:02 pm: Techinically, you shouldn't feel bad because you're not dating your ex. But if you feel guilty because you love him and you know he loves you, that's a different story. Be honest with your ex, and tell him that you're afraid of getting hurt again. Your ex might have thought that you were trying to rub it in his face when you kissed his friend. Honesty is the key here and if he doesn't understand you, it wasn't meant to be.
.:*Em&xTina*:. [ LiLPiNkfLiRts1230's advice column | Ask LiLPiNkfLiRts1230 A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 10:54 pm: Uhm, no, I don't think so. You shouldn't feel guilty you did it just because you like youR ex so much. You two aRen't togetheR anymoRe.. you don't owe it to him to be obessed oveR him foReveR, and you have no pRomises to keep! On the otheR hand.. I would suggest not getting involved with his fRiend.. that soRt of thing could Really bReak up theiR fRiendship, and it's pRobably not woRth it!! Best wishes!! Hope I helped!! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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