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Shyness
OK this relates to the other questions ive asked. I'm really shy around girls and its hard for me to not studder when i talk to a girl. I get all sweaty and clammy when i have to talk to a girl i like. My mind goes blank and i cant think what to say. Got any pointers on how to fix this?
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jsut remember the wrost thing a girl can say is no, and if you dont ask its really the same result. in gambling terms its preatty much the best bet you can make, win everything or loose nothing. anyways ive never had much trouble when talking to a girl, a little bit of trouble working up the nerve to go up to her and start talking yes, but then i jsut took my own advice. some girls might actualy find it cute that they make you so nervous.
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aww. First of all, what your feeling is normal you have nothing to worry about. Everyone feels this way when they like someone! Just relax and picture the girl as one of your friends. Hope I helped!
xoxo chels
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First of all, let me say that what you're feeling is perfectly normal. The best thing for you to do is take a deep breath and relax. Starting the conversation is the hardest part. If you're lucky and it works out with the girl, she might find it cute, the way you got so flustered before you talked to her. (I'm going to let you in on a little secret, girls go through the same thing before they talk to guys.)
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thats cute but anyway you can make yourself believe that ur talking to one of ur friends and then you wont get soo shaky
If that doesn't work, you don't have to change anything because i think that the girls might might be just as nervous talking to you
hope thats enough to help
TrumpetChyk92
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u shouldn't be shy at all cause either way one way or the other ur gonna HAVE 2 speak 2 gurlz.but to help u out when uspeak to a gurl be urself don't look at the floor when u do cause thats annoying i know that 4 a fact.if u studder then when u speak to gurls think of them as just another 1 of ur homiez but don't ack the way u do when ur with ur friends but just think of gurls as just ppl or ur normal friends cause if u act weird thats wut scares them off all i can say look at them in the eyes when u speak to them and think twice about wut u say...good luck
Ivanna
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It all has to do with self confidence. You have to be confident. Unconfident guys are a turn off. What are you so scared of or nervous about anyway? they are just girls. human beings, just like yourself. just relax, be yourself, dont try so hard, and remember talking to girls is a perfectly normal thing. if you keep being nervous you are gonna say something dumb, but if you just relax you will be fine.
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ok breathe lol i mean as bad as it is for u..its probally worse for the girll..because if your so shy the girl is even shyer..and nothing will ever happen..go for it and dun let anyhting hold you down..soo mcuh good will come from that . . . kAt *
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Just relax, take some deep breathes before you walk up to her. Be calm and relax. Pretend like its just a girl that's a friend and you're holding a conversation with her. Just walk up to her and just be like "hey whats up?" or "hey, I'm ___, whats your name?" And just go from there, I'm sure she'll hold a conversation with you too. Some girls like shy guys, I personally think its so cute and usually I'll help the guy out if he is shy, so he's more comfortable. Hope this helps and good luck hun, I know you can do it! If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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JUst picture the gurl as a guy aand think of her like a guy friend.Most gurls feel like that too.when u talk to a gurl think of an opening line like hi im _______!whats ur name .they will answer and then ask the something you want to know or tell them a random fact like......its illegal to stab a person in the back in texas or who you want to vote for and why!
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im the same around guys. just stop being a pussy and say what you want to! it'll work out fine...i hope...
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Be calm ! Girls love attention so u have to get outta not talking to them ! Just be urself relax they will think ur cute even if u are shy ! Gurls love to talk so belive me all u have to say is hey whats up ? and she will prolly talk ur head off for hours ! unless u get a shy gurl ! Which i wouldn't recomend ! Hope i helped !
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