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Question Posted Sunday August 22 2004, 10:35 pm

hii.. im the gurl before that was askin about Nathan and smokin weed. i dumped him, but i got really stoned one night, and fell asleep.. and woke up naked but he wasn't there. I know we had to of had sex, cuz i was REALLLLLLLY sore down there.. and was bleedin but i didnt have my period, now i think im pregnant cuz i havn't got my period this month... i am s0o0o0 scared!! i've been non-stop crying.. like im only 14 years old!!! and i cant believe that happened... he is denyin anything happened but i dont believe him. Please, pretty please give me some advice on what to doo!! please i need help, i ratee!!!

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Ghettotissuebox answered Monday August 23 2004, 6:49 pm:
Ok, well the first thing you wanna do is tell your parents, about everything, getting stoned, waking up naked, everything! Your parents will probually know what to do from there, get you a pregnancy test, test for STDs, maybe even press charges, he raped you! Tell your parents ASAP!!!!! I really hope everything works out!!
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*Leah

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xASH answered Monday August 23 2004, 6:01 pm:
did you get a pregnancy test? if you didn't then you should. if you're pregnant i would call the cops on him for rape and let them handle him. Even if you aren't pregnant i would still call the cops because what he did was wrong.

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MummuM answered Monday August 23 2004, 1:50 pm:
Wow hun, I'm so sorry. First off you need to go to the store and buy a test to see if you are 100% pregnant, before you do anything. If you are pregnant tell your parents everything. Tell them how you got stoned, fell asleep and woke up naked. Yah, they're probably be really mad, but you have to tell them. I'm sorry to say, but if that did happen Nathan probably took advantage of you while you were stoned and raped you. I say go to the police. No, deffently go to the police. Don't be scared, try calming done a little bit. If you are scared and crying all the time, your period tends to hold off. So, just try relazing and such. If you need anymore help, don't be shy, leave it in my inbox.

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AngelaMarie824 answered Monday August 23 2004, 10:57 am:
go to the doctors and get that checked out... and hun im sorry to say this but i think he took advantage of u being stoned and raped u.Hes lying to u about everything. Go to ur parents or a guidence counselor.im sure they would deal with u getting high afer they figure out what heppened.
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Wish ya the bestt luck :)

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snowwalker69 answered Monday August 23 2004, 9:21 am:
OKay, so you got stoned with him one night, and when you feel asleep he raped you? Holy shit, you should go to a guidance councler, or even better, the police. Yeah, your parents and the police will know you did weed, but i think they would deal with the rape case first. Hun, I know your probley very scared, but you shouldn't do this alone. Talk to somebody who can help you.

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Sunshine answered Monday August 23 2004, 1:49 am:
The first thing you need to do is go to the doctor and get checked out. Not only to find out whether or not you are pregnant, but also to make sure you don't have any STD's. If he did this to you, then he probably did it to someone else before. Hopefully you are not pregnant, but if you are then he won't be able to deny what happened. Press charges!!! He's a rapist and he should be in jail. You should also contact a rape crisis center. Even though you can't remember what happened, it doesn't change the fact that you were raped, and you need some counseling to help you deal with that. I wish you all the best.

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LilMia811 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 11:52 pm:
you know that is some fucked up shit that he did to you. im sorry that you had to experience something like that. but look, go buy a pregnancy test, and see if you are pregnant. if you arent, just stop stressing, because that is probably what is delaying your period. hope i helpd. and good luck! :)

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berrybum324 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 11:22 pm:
omg..well go to the doctors..or take a test..dun tell ur parents untill your positive..and u have probally been stressing out because of this .. for a long long time which means ur period could b delayed becuz of it..mine was once for 7 moths..cuz i was sooooooo stressed..so dun assume ne thing unless ur sure..and if u were drunk or w/e and u still sed no..taht is rape and u can press charges and he'll have to pay you money which can help for the baby if u r pregnant..and if he seyes nothing happened..maybe nothign did..but if ur pretty sure something did..then sumtin probally did..just take a test to make sure..hope i helped . . . KaT *

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SheaStadium answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:58 pm:
First of all, u shud go to the doctors to find out if u r pregnant. If u r afraid to tell ur parents, have someone u know and r very close to take u to the doctors. If it turns out u r pregnant u need to talkl to nathan about it and decide what to do. U need to tell ur parents about what happened and ask ppl who were there if they no anything about what happenned. Also, if u said no to having sex, it is considered rape and u can press charges if u end up being pregnant with nathans baby. I hope i helped and good luck!

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iLjaG answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:51 pm:
You need to go to the doctor and make sure he did to you what you think he did. And if he did, contact the athorities and get his worthless ass put in jail. Any guy like that doesn't deserve to be free. Also go to your local drug store and purchase a couple of home pregnancy tests. Tell your parents, they won't be as mad if you tell them now than later. Surround yourself with your friends and tell them about the situation as well. I told myself I would never answer a question that had "I rate" in it, but you need help, so I did.

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Karen answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:44 pm:
You need to take a pregnancy test that you can buy at a local pharmacy and if it reads positive, you gotta tell your mom. You're gonna get in trouble when your parents find out that you got stoned but they won't get that mad if you are pregnant. They will support you through your pregnancy if you are pregnant. Hope I helped :)

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