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my name is carly and im 13. i really like my friend "bob". over the summer we were like best friends we hung out a lot.. and we went out twice. the first time we were going out he broke up with me cause he thought i liked another guy. so i told him i never liked any other boys a few days after we broke up and we went out again. but the second time we went out things were getting too serious, like he said he was in love with me? and i wasnt ready for that.. i was really scared. so i broke up with him. but now i think i made a mistake. i've hinted around that i like him again and he doesnt even seem to care.. i think i really hurt his feelings. now he doesnt even say hi to me at school or anything.. we even walked out of the door at the same time and neither of us said a word to each other! i havent told very many people but im like crazy about him! im like missing him all the time and i never talk to him cause hes never online anymore. everything reminds me of him too! what should i do? i really need advice so if you could help me out that'd be great!! (sorry this is so long) xoxo -*carlycakes!!
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sry this took so long to answer - i was away!!
i understand how him saying he loved you on the second date could be a little much, especially since you're only thirteen!! try tellin him why you reacted the way you did and tell him that you're new to this whole thing...you shouldn't be completely committed to each other at such a young age! move slow ~ start by being friends again...
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Since you can't seem to get "Bob" off your mind, I really think you should just tell him how you feel. You should be the one to break the ice between you two and confront him during lunch or something and tell him that you still have strong feelings for him.
If you feel uncomfortable doing that, have a close friend tell him or try to call him. Use your imagination =)
Good luck & I hope my advice worked!
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sounds like you like him alot... thats prolly ovious... so your not ready for such a serious relationship... so then tell him... in the question it doesnt say you did. thats the best way to have a good relationship... saying everything you feel... the best way to get him to know you still like him is telling him... i know how it feels not talking to exboyfriends AT ALL it sucks being ignored... something happened with one of mine where i heart his feelings too... well i sucks for the guys... tell him your sry... im still dealing with that problem except i think he'd be better off without me... well also if you dont feel you can tlk straight forward... try and call him... i dk but you didnt say anything about it but maybe you can say that now ur ready for a seriosu relationship and b4 you werent. i hope all this helps... school gets me all confused... lol. well if it helps email me... id like to kno i helped... and if i didnt ask me another question that asks about the parts i didnt help in and id be happy to try again and make sure its a different answer... lol. i dont know about you but i have tons of homework... i hope you guys go out again and i hope it works out. x3 xogiggles37xo.
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Just try to work on getting your friendship back, first.. if you hurt his feelings he might not be willing to be like, best friends again right away. So just either email him, or call him, and just ask how he's doing, explain that you thought things were going too fast and work from there. it'll probably take a while for you guys to be really close again, but just keep working at it. Don't overdo it, and really annoy him, though..
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hmmm sounds like me n jamie lol...uh srry but u need to tell him how u fell
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Hey gurl, I'm sorry to hear about that, don't worry about it,just tell "bob" that you are really sorry and that he was your first boyfriend (if he was)and that you were really nervous around him b/c you really like him a lot.
thankz!
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