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Ok my friend is 12 years old and she's drinking and i don't know how to make her stop. she just started because she thinks she 'needs to' but i think its because this other girl does. please give me ideas or help me or something
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tell her she doesnt need to drink to be cool...at 12 thats pretty dumb...tell her she can do other things rather than drink to have fun!!
*jesikuh
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Let ehr know the side effects of drinking and how it could effect her in the long run. If she ignores you and doesnt credit your advice then tell her parents. if her parents dont care and elt this go on, then ttalk to a cop or somehting about ti and ask them what you can do to help. you're frined would be mad at you for doing anyhitng i just said above. but in the long run after she is cured she would credit what you did for her. hope i helped!!!! -amber-
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Talk to her and tell her the effects of drinking. but as long as she doesnt like go in a car with drunk ppl or anything like that it should be ok. as long as she drinks and stays with ppl so they can make sure she doesnt do anything she will lata regret. i wouldnt worry that much about her bc mose teens DO drink.hope that helped
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tell her that she's WAY to young to be drinking, and tell her if she doesn't want you to tell her mother then she will stop drinking. if your friendship means anything to her at all she will do it. good luck and i hope i helped.
*~*shan*~*
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Hi. wow thats bad for her. talk to her and let her kno that it's bad for her and she shouldnt do it no more...tell her it doesnt change who she is if shes drinkin or not and that she always have you and let her kno how you feel and talk to her about everything that you have questions about. i'm sure will understand. and if that doesnt work i suggest you tell her parents so she wont hurt herself. anything else you can contact me. Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
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You need to tell your friend (who's 12)! that she can't be doing that. When you see her drinking, immediately take the drink from her. She's ruining her body. Also, tell her that she has you as a friend and that the other "cool girls" are worthless - and definitly aren't worth her ruining her body over. If she continues, you're going to have to tell her parents if she won't.
You can ask me for advice anytime!
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You need to talk to her about it and tell her that she needs to stop and if she doesnt ur gonna have to tell sum1... and if she gets madd tell her ur doing it cuz u care about her...
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you need to tell her parents or something... then it will be easier for her to quit... or if you cant do that then you should tell her your really sad when she does it so she thinks shes losing a friend or something... tell her how concerned you are... and next time she does it shove the bottle in her pussy and film it to make a porn
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listen tell her parents that she drinks and you dont think its right sit down and talk to her bout it..thanx
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tell her how you feel. shes only 12...that is way too young to be drinking, there is no excuse for that.....tell her that you believe that shes only doin it because the other girl does...she will start to feel ridiculous and eventually stop...juss give her time!
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talk to her, and find out if she's drinking alot or just every so often. if she ends up having a drinking problem tell someone you can trust and get her help! if you have any more questions put it in my inbox ! thanks x3 becca
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noo tell her she doesnt need it..i sused to drink every fken day before skool to wake me up and during skool and everything then i made sum stupid promise wit a boy saying i wouldnt drink for lik a couple of months or sumtin and even thru all the urges..i did it ! i was soo proud of myself and now thta its ovr..i just dun wna drink at all ne more..lik sumtimes i do but i realli just dun wna..no one needs alcohol everyone can live without it .. and u dun havta drink to b friends wit othr ppl or to hang out wit them..it ruins ur kidney and ur blood and eveyrhting my best frend gave me pamphlets on it .. try to make her stop as hard as u can..becuz she is young and still is growing..and its not good at all for her . . . KaT *
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Talk to your friend and explain to her the dangers of drinking. Did you know alcohol is a poison? If you drink enough of it, it'll kill you. It gets a little more complicated as to what it does, but I'm not going to go into it because I might be wrong on some accounts, and I don't like to give info I'm not certain of.
But drinking really is dangerous, and she has to be careful. If she's only drinking a little - like the equivilant of a glass of wine - she might be okay, but if she's really drinking, she needs to be careful.
Alcohol also lowers your inhibitions, which can lead to embarrassing situations...remind her of that if the whole "it's a poison" angle doesn't work.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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She's probably addicted to it.. just tell her you really care about her and you dont want her to do nething stupid when she gets drunk or when shes drinking, its really bad for your health exspecially when you are only 12! Just talk to her, be there for her, maybe she drinks cuz that the only thing she can go to when she is "depressed" or something =/ <3
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