Question Posted Wednesday September 29 2004, 8:32 am
my girlfriend has posters on her wall of a bunch of celebrities that she thinks are "hot". She claims to me all the time that she doesnt check them out or think about them in any way but i think she is lying to me. I dont know what to do now. Is she lying to me about checking other guys out or what. She claims they are stupid little pictures, well if they are so stupid why are they up?
Riggzy answered Thursday September 30 2004, 2:55 am: Are you insane, or just insanely possessive? The freakin' posters aren't going to make your girlfriend leave you, you ass. Your inability to handle a mature relationship is what's going to end it. [ Riggzy's advice column | Ask Riggzy A Question ]
s0ur_lem0n answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 10:19 pm: welL you shouldnt worry becasue its celebs. every1 loves them . and its not liek she is acc. gonna get a chancee with one of the,. so i tihnnk u have noting to wrry about. juss telL her how u feEl ..
RedNeckShOrTy answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 9:38 pm: It doesnt mean anything. EVERY teenage girl has posters on her walls. Every girl thinks some celebrity is hot (Ashton and Orlando lol!). The pictures dont mean anything, and that's all they are...pictures. She knows that she wont ever actually date them. As much as we all wish we could! lol So dont worry so much!
Hannah answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 5:18 pm: Hey hey,
She is not checking out other guys if she has posters on her room. All gilrs think Orlando Bloom is hot but we have no chance with him! It is fun to think celebs are cute but we love are men back home. Try not to get so obsessed over posters. She's going out with you. Not the boys hanging on her wall. And remember they are just pictures. But if you have such a problem with it, tell her that the relationship is over. It's your choice.
freakerouter07 answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 5:02 pm: girls like celebrities...thats the way it is...and plus im sure u look at hot girls sometimes 2, shes not doing anything wrong, so you'll just have to accept the fact thats shes human...i hope i helped! [ freakerouter07's advice column | Ask freakerouter07 A Question ]
evilgogeta answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 4:56 pm: Fact of life, both guys and girls look at people they're not involved with. It dosen't mean she wants to get with any of these people, it just means she's enjoying the view. You know what they say, there's no harm in window shopping. [ evilgogeta's advice column | Ask evilgogeta A Question ]
S_C answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 4:11 pm: Not to sound rude, but so when you look at porn, or at magazines, like playboy, or just any other magazines, or the cheerleaders, or any other pretty girl, and say wow she's pretty, or dang she's hot, you assume that that's all right
They're just posters, it's not like she'd have a chance to be with any of those guys, they're way to old, and they're famous, thel probalbly live nowhere near you. Besides, if she's going out with you, obviously she likes you THE MOST!!
XxRockon answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 3:42 pm: just cuz she has posters of celevs doesnt mean that she doesnt love u lol its not like she is gunna go out with n eof them and checking otu guys not celebs is a diff story. if u see her checking out other guys talk to her about it but otherwise don't worry abot it she loves u and just trust her and she will trust u, hope i helped :) [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 3:06 pm: Ok let me explain the difference. First of all-- im not trying to be mean but you might be the slightest bit controlling. Ok, the difference between me thinking my boyfriends(lol i dnt have one right now.. but hey lets pretend) hot and me thinking ashton kutchers hot is this-- i LOVE my boyfriend for who he is... i dont love ashton kutcher b/c i dnt know him.. he has a nice body and hes cute.
.... checking out is just looking at someone to see if their good looking. Shes not cheating on you with anyone but face it theres celebs out there that are hotter cause of all like the massive surgery and crap they go through.. so ashtons unreachably hot, and to your girlfriend your "her man" hot. Lol.. get it?? ... Im sure theres celeb girls out there you think are hot... just let your girlfriend slide.. shes not doin anything wrong
Anarchilist answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 2:00 pm: Um, dont you ever look at magazines/porn/other girls and think they're hot? And dont fucking lie because all guys do, no matter if they're in a relationship or not. You're just a clingy bastard that cant get over the fact that girls might like to look at other guys also, its not like shes giving them a blowjob. [ Anarchilist's advice column | Ask Anarchilist A Question ]
Laura answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 1:19 pm: It's not like she has a chance at meeting them. You can't tell me you've never thought about some model or actress or whatever. It's no big deal.
Uniq_The_Geek answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 12:39 pm: well, lets face it. most girlz dream about thir celebrety crushes. if she does check the posters out, so what? it's not like they're gonna make out wit her. sorry, but its da truth. for ex. u might like celebrity's like pam anderson, britney,christina,etc. just tell her ur uncomfortable wit it and maybe she'll take em down. good luk, if u need n e more help, email me at crazyflirty@yahoo.com
penguinxown answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 12:34 pm: Well people are going to have some celebrities and stars they will like. Its only natural to like someone of the T.V and Movies. I mean everyone has a little lust for stars but you know. If she says she dosent think about them, she dosent. That means she wants YOU. So stop thinking she is lying. It dosent matter if theres silly poster of some star in her room because inside her heart, YOURE her star.
doode...just coz your chick has like all these posters of male celebrities dusnt mean that she cheks em out..i mean thats kinda normal to HAB those posters...just trust your girlfrend...i mean wheres a relationship without trust...ya noe? [ missing-identity-seeker's advice column | Ask missing-identity-seeker A Question ]
rainbowcherrie answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 11:27 am: STOP WORRYING!!!! Listen, when you're dating someone, you CANNOT expect them not to find other people attractive!! It doesn't mean she fancies them or anything she just thinks they're fit. Man, if my boyfriend told me he didn't find anyone else hot then i'd be worried!! I think heaps of celebrities are hot and I think a load of guys in our year are too, it doesn't mean anything, quit worrying!! [ rainbowcherrie's advice column | Ask rainbowcherrie A Question ]
xlostangelx answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 10:54 am: Soo many ppl in this world..definately over half of the human population, have posters of celebrities on their walls.. and yur girlfriend is rite..they probably dont mean anything to her..she may think they are attractive but i guarentee you that yu have nuthing to worry about cuz its not like shes gonna ever meet these guys or its not like shes gonna cheat on yu with them ..they're only celebritites ..nuthing to get mad over .. im sure yu have girl celebritites you admite .. well, its the same thing with her!!
and .. just be happy that famous ppl are on her wall instead of guys that she knoz in real life !!
chaos answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 9:15 am: Every teenager has a phase where there are "stupid little pictures." on their walls and/or doors. She is stretching the truth if she is telling you that she isn't checking them out. I remember enjoying thinking about particular heavy metal heads when I was young, but I didn't stalk them. That's when you have a true problem.
She likes you, and she isn't running off with some cutie. Come now, tell me there aren't at least one Victoria's Secret catalog under your bed? [ chaos's advice column | Ask chaos A Question ]
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